I have always dated men who were for lack of better words "homophobic". My boyfriend, whom i have been for 5 months now, has asked me a couple of times about anal penetration for him. I don't know why but this really unnerved me. While i don't mind weird stuff being done to me, I am not one who likes to do weird stuff to some one else. Multiple times he has brought up a strap-on. Does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do?