So I'm 38. Me and my gf have recently relit our fires for each other. 1 to 2 times a day vs maybe once every 2weeks. Yay. Been going on for a month now. So now here recently up to 3/4 times a day. But now I'm having issues getting back to erect on the 3rd or 4th time.not a huge issue but a bummer cause I want to just keep going but heit won't let me. Any help would be appreciate d. The first 2 are always fine and rock solid. Am I just over doing it?