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  5. I Just Had A Friend Tell Me To Get The Fake Boobs....

    in Dating and Relationships

    Posted

    Anyways....they dated for about 6 or 9 months and then she told him she just wanted to be friends.

    But guess what?

    She's coming to the birthday party THIS YEAR too! (and I've not seen her in a year.)

    Any advise on how I should act around her? I'm thinking cool and polite and that's IT. I've got two of my friends that know her story which are going to be there too for support. :)

    OK I am not going to be as professional as hyokahey so forgive me.

    First off she is NOT a friend! Up hers, seriously. What a two faced douche!! Second, maybe you should send her a wardrobe suggestion for a 5 year old's birthday party... unless she is trying to score someone else's ex husband!

    Third, it ISNT you, it IS him! he is a moron... a shallow moron who chases after the like. You are amazing and beautiful!!!

    At the party you should laugh, have fun, be loud, draw attention and COMPLETELY ignore her like you could give a shit!!

    There I am done. LOL

  8. Depression Meds

    in All About Orgasms

    Posted

    My friend just called me this afternoon, she said she had a personal question for me.... so I gave her my full attention...

    She told me she had been put on Zoloft. Now I hadn't talked to her in a while but she said she is having a really hard time reaching orgasm during sex! She said she gets aroused and all but just can't get there!

    Now I do not have personal experience with depression meds, maybe some of you have? Her boyfriend suggested they try some toys. I think that is a good idea, to add them in but what else can I tell her? Any advice out there??

    Thanks in advance!! :)

  14. Prince Albert

    in Sex Positions & Techniques

    Posted

    My ex had one. Unfortunately, I didn't really feel too much of a difference. It was ok, and a visual turn-on, but nothing that I would say "OMG YOU HAFTA GET ONE OF THOSE!!!". :0

    LOL I wonder if there is anyone who can say that?? Sure is interesting though!

  16. New Contest: If You Had Your Wish...

    in Contests & Fun Questions

    Posted

    Not really a toy but I wish I had this: Click on it

    LFPT02.jpg

    That is the Liberator throe...it is a bit pricey but I NEED it!! I have a little waterproof thing but it is too small I need to upgrade. My bed, couch, livingroom rug, sheets, blankets and the like, beg you... pick me!!! I will take excellent care of it, wash and dry it daily... using a nice fabric softener... and I will do a fantastic detailed, graphic, review on it just to say thank you!!!! Please please please!!!

    :)

  17. Concerned

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    the stuff he's looking at is like the pictures we have in our image wars, he's saving them on his computer

    and he told me last night.. i actually kind of caught him. we were looking at a pretty picture, and i asked him to save it, when he hit the save button, all the previous saved pictures popped up. like a hundred + pictures of naked, sexy, big boobed, girls (like the complete opposite of me)... and he kind of just told me he'd been saving them for three months.

    before when i'd catch him, he said it was because his dad wanted him to save them for him (which I used to believe, because his dad is a perv).. but now, idk.. i can't trust him. and it sucks.

    i feel like he watches porn, gets turned on, then turns to me to take out whatever he has built up inside.. like i'm the one that can't turn him on anymore. uhhh....

    I understand you feeling like that because he kept it secret but try to talk to him about it. Ask him WHY he wants to look at those pics. Ask him how he feels about you, ask him what he desires from YOU...

    Sometimes Men can be insecure too, afraid to express their fantasies to their SO in fear of rejection. So they turn to Porn... to sort of act it out in imagery. Try to reassure him, take a deep breath (and a glass of wine or 2) talk it out! See if you can have a fun fantasy for the 2 of you that will leave him hungry for more of YOU!

    Trust me I KNOW how you feel!!!! I have been there and THEN some! My husband had a serious porn habit and it hurt me for a really long time. Now he NEVER and I can confidently say never looks at it! He will attest to it!

  18. Prince Albert

    in Sex Positions & Techniques

    Posted

    like that picture (in the link)? with all those piercings... ouchy..

    Well the jewelry is smooth and rounded, could be an interesting texture... they seem to be strategically placed to hit, um certain areas, in different positions... imagine? yeah I am sort of intrigued.

  20. Concerned

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    well. the pictures and videos wouldn't bother me if I would get attention as well, but I don't.. our sex life has turned to dust the past few days.

    with him i've always felt ok with my body, of course i'd have these little moods i'd go thru. but after he confessed last night. it's like i've lost trust.

    i just feel like crap right now.

    I'm so sorry you are feeling like this... :( you need to talk about it. I for one, don't like porn and for that very reason. It makes me feel like shit. I always felt the same as you sweetie. I don't know your man, he may just be blowing off steam. There is a ton of that stuff right at his fingertips so it can be very tempting. What is he looking at? Is it something you could be into as well? Maybe talk about fantasies and see if you can fulfill them for him! I would be concerned if he is looking at porn more than he is paying attention to YOU for sure! Another problem I feel with porn is, when you are really watching it habitually, it can desensitize you to reality. I have seen this happen to people and it is tough. Not to say that is YOUR situation... Just talk it out, tell him how you feel, SHOW him you are better than those plastic cyber skanks! You could turn it around!! :)

  21. The Sqweel

    in Sex Toy Reviews

    Posted

    Sqweel1_01.jpg

    Overall I was not 'sqweeling' with pleasure - but, the toy does promise and orgasm and I had 2 - so I guess the Sqweel did its job - it just took a while.

    LOL that was great! What are the dimensions of the thing... like can you straddle it or better hand held... just trying to get a visual! ;)

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