[Romance Outside Of The Bedroom]

My hubby and I bought each other flowers on valentines day (Roses for me, Lillies for him)

We hold hands when we go out, and snuggle in bed. We tell one another we love each other several times a day.

He's always bringing home little things for me (favorite candy, cds, that sort of thing)

We go out to dinner once a week or so.

We watch movies together. Um, we basically just sort of remind one another we care.

[Me And My Hubby]

we shall, thanks

[What Do Like Your Lover(s) To Wear?]

Hehe, nah, I like him sans rope... although I may have to get some of those lessons myself, and I agree about the tight jeans and nothing else Whoo-wee I love seeing him topless

[What Do Like Your Lover(s) To Wear?]

I love my hubby in costumes, school girl, naughty nurse, French maid, saloon gal, cowboy (we bought this one recently, and DAMN I never thought I'd be into an outfit that manly, but OH MY! He can ride me anytime) and I love lingerie... on either me or my hubby *giggle*

[Random Get To Know You Q's]

1. what do you do for a living?: I'm a SFX and beauty makeup artist, and sometimes writer

2. children: None

3. pets? 2 cats, Molko and Kerouac.

4. tats/piercings? Pierced nose and ears

5. what is in your cd player in your car? I don't own a car, however in my CD changer at home it's Nick Cave, The Raveonettes, and Nightmare of You

6. fav. tv show? Well I don't really watch TV (We don't own a set), but I love The Simpsons

7. what are you reading? High Fidelity By Nick Hornby

[Safe Words]

No this is not rape, not anywhere near that. He nips nipples sometimes hard and sometimes stops a minute or so after I say stop

Or he tickles me he's the most wonderful man, and it's just the nipping. Maybe I should get a newspaper and train him like I trained the dog

Mine bites too! It's really annoying, even though I know it's all in fun I don't think he gets that it hurts... I think I'll get a spritz bottle of water to use on him. "Keep doing that and I'm going to ruin your blow out!"

[Me And My Hubby]

Lillie is my husband, I'm Madeira, he's the one with long hair, I'm the one with short hair

[Oral Do's & Don'ts]

Maybe if he went slower or used some lube. Sometimes going slow makes all the difference:)

Nah, I've had other partners do it too, never feels good... maybe it's cause everyone I've ever been with has been a nail biter

[Lipstick That Doesnt Wear Off]

Yeah, I'm a makeup artist (and used to give far too many blowjobs in highschool *laugh*), and there's really not much you can do.

[Pour Some Sugar On Me Def Leppard!]

Hehe, makes me want to get my 7 1/2 inch stripper shoes out of the closet and show my husband that even though I have no sense of rhythm most of the time... there are exceptions

[Oral Do's & Don'ts]

It distracts me... and for some reason it hurts... never hurts with anything else up there, but fingers make me really uncomfortable *shrug*

[Safe Words]

Scrambled Eggs, cause you can make it out through a gag

[Gotta Love Ron!]

Hehe, DAMN RIGHT HE DID!

[Anal Beads In The Front Door?]

Can one use anal toys (Anal beads, plugs) etc, obviously not if they've been used on the backdoor and not cleaned, but I don't like anal at all, and I was wondering about maybe trying out some anal toys on my vag. just to vary sensations?

[Oral Do's & Don'ts]

I love having my pussy licked, and it's important for my partner to really get their face down in their and stimulate me, I actually hate being fingered while I'm being eaten out.

[Me And My Hubby]

Thank you, for both of us

[Me And My Hubby]

You lilly is him in drag?

Glenn

uh, I don't quite understand the question

[Me And My Hubby]

so Lillie's all the way blonde now... I'm kinda loving it

Also one of me as desire of the endless:

[New Contest Idea?]

Describe the costume you most desire to see your lover in?

How did you lose your virginity?

What was the absolute best time for you, and why?

[Ladies, What Kind Of Porn Do You Like?]

I loooooooooooooooooovee Male/Male, boy on boy just really gets my motor running

[Lillie/madeira]

Thanks

[Getting A Partner To Try Toys?]

You need to find out specifically why he is so against it, and discuss it.

My husband felt replaced, and didn't understand what the toys could do that he couldn't. It took many heart to heart talks with him. Now he loves seeing me get off, or using them on me. He does not like phallic toys, he feels as if he's holding a man's penis which is a huge turn off for him. He liked my glass toy it was not really phallic looking.

He loves bullets, both on me and him, Gspot toys also.

I'm lucky that he is not turned off by blood, will have sex while I have my period, and he loves to manually stimulate me.

Does your husband stimulate you clitorally during sex or do you stimulate yourself? A bullet would give his and your fingers a break and you could use it between the two of you.

Hehe, he does the stimulating... he actually likes doing the stimulating because it's good exercise for his fingers (he's a bass player, so it's the same as finger picking) maybe that's why he doesn't like toys...

[Me And My Hubby]

Well he gets his done once a week, which takes about two hours, and then about ten min. to brush it out in the morning, I really don't have to do anything to mine.

[Getting A Partner To Try Toys?]

Well I recently finished my period, and my husband and I were both very... interested in one another during that time, but he doesn't like getting bloody, so we can't really have sex then, and he is similarly unwilling to stimulate me manually, so I suggest he try some of my toys on me since I know he enjoys pleasuring me, and he was adamantly against the idea he didn't really explain why, though I think it's because he feels they're unromantic, or porny in some way. So any idea for how to get him to see them as something pleasurable and romantic? Maybe a toy he'd find aesthetically pleasing as an art object, or a way of presenting the idea?

[Lillie/madeira]

Thank you all so much, I spent far too long planning it, I had a million ideas including slipping the ring into a box of our favorite vegan icecream bars (Marry Me Bars), writing him a song (which would have been awful as I'm painfully non-musical), having one of his favorite bands ask for me from stage, in the end though, I think this was best.