Well I recently finished my period, and my husband and I were both very... interested in one another during that time, but he doesn't like getting bloody, so we can't really have sex then, and he is similarly unwilling to stimulate me manually, so I suggest he try some of my toys on me since I know he enjoys pleasuring me, and he was adamantly against the idea he didn't really explain why, though I think it's because he feels they're unromantic, or porny in some way. So any idea for how to get him to see them as something pleasurable and romantic? Maybe a toy he'd find aesthetically pleasing as an art object, or a way of presenting the idea?