I do think that is a reason that i do not like giving my man a bj sometimes he puts his hand on the back of my head but then there are times he wont, and i have to be in the mood also and i found out if he goes down on me then i can do it better but i dont know i just dont like it all , what about hand jobs ? I love giving him a hand job , and he says i do GREAT! I was so proud of myself the other day that i made him orgasam 4 or more times . But still he asks for me to go down on him I need so Help if any one could help please do...................