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  1. luvhim93,

    hi, I am having some erection problems recently so I thought I'd join this thread. The problem with erections is that once you start thinking about them, they disappear. This is because it's thinking about the pleasurable sensations of sex that gives a man an erection, and if he's thinking about his erection, well, then he's not thinking about all the good things about sex. I had this problem before and then it got better, but recently it has come back. I haven't figured out the answer yet, I don't seem to be able to stop thinking about my erection so I can't really tell you what to do, but having a break from penetrative sex, where the man's erection is a key part of the activity, is definitely a good idea - that's what we are doing at the moment.

    Don't underestimate how embarrassing and frustrating it is when a man's erection fails. As Mikayla says, pretty soon men start avoiding sex so they dont have to deal with the issue (I did this for a while recently) which doesnt move the couple towards solving the problem, and probably will create more problems because the woman will feel rejected etc. Talk to him very gently, and get him to understand that its both your problem, not just his, and that you will work towards resolving it together. Take the time to educate yourself about erectile dysfunction (start by googling it), he'll really appreciate that you are taking charge and taking active steps to solve the problem.

    I am thinking about getting a book on tantric sex and trying some of that with my wife. I havent really looked into it yet but it seems like a cross between yoga and sex, I've done yoga before and enjoyed the meditation. Tantric sex seems like it would focus you back on the sensations of breathing etc, and thus stop the man thinking about his erection.

    Here's one tip I find helps when I get an erection, but can't finish - get your man to masturbate himself to climax, with you touching him. He might find it embarassing at first, but with your encouragement he will manage, and its much easier to climax when masturbating yourself because you are in full control. Another idea is to just rest, and play in some other way - that also takes the pressure off.

    I hope that is of some help. Your husband is not alone!

    Calvin

    my man get off just by him getten me off .

    i think he realy injoy doing what he does to me no mater the tast or fell he does nothen with his him self just does me in many different ways and befor u know it he is ready to go .........do u injoy what u do to try does she injoy what u r doing to her ? spice it up try being sweet with a different part of the boddy.

  2. OK Me and my hb have had anal 4 times. The first was an accident. Doggy style, wrong hole, ouch!!! Next was not really painful but very uncomfortable. They say the third is a charm and it was. I rode him and it was great but I didn't cum. Now this past weekend it was downright painful. I could have cried and I couldn't let him get past the head there was so much pressure. I would say he is pretty well endowed but not huge. Why is it painful sometimes and not others. What can we do to make this more enjoyable? We did use K-Y.

    for me it was a fringer slip,being wet and all for him going down his finger got in wrong hole he said sorry and i said why it dofferent , the next time we had sex that week he said u whant the finger in u ass againe and i say yea it was different .later that day i ask what was that all about and he said we men talk at work so i tryed it on u.........it was ok i still like it but for some reason i'd rather have it up the ass pecker up my ass more than his finger.........so what i am saying try finger first get use to it then try his pecker or u might try useing a toy see what u would do with it a nd how far that way u can tell him ok that is good there ......good luck and injoy

  3. i have never had the pleasure of getting my toes sucked on, or anything. This does sound like something i might mention, to my boyfriend.

    what happend is Dragon said he was giong to kiss me from Head to Toe,and he did .

    he teased me all the way down to my toes, :P it was wild

  4. I LOVE to have my hair pulled in the doggy position, I mean LOVE LOVE to. I also enjoy, having my nipples tugged on and pulled. I highly enjoyed being spanked. Dirty talk I love also, I also enjoy nipple clamps and things at times to. My husband knows that pulling my hair and spanking me, he can make me come in no time. Now sometimes we even go as far as light bondage, which is highly enjoyable, and of course I have to well not behave so well just to get a good spanking.

    haven my hair tugged on just the rightway i can cum in a sec.

    luv it when my partner is doing my mouth my hand behind my back and he pulling my hair...and at times in forplay he pull or bits my nibble and what a trun on ,for some od reason i injoy

    my self i been trying to try new thing and so far so good ,i got the right person to do it with TY TY TY Dragon u the best

  5. Yes sucking on a woman feet and toes is great and can be a great turnon for a woman it is a very senstive area that is connected to all parts of her body and can even bring her to climax :rolleyes:

    now dude dragon u are the reason i posted this u gave me the wooooooooooow of a life time i think each women should give it a try and each man................. :P

  6. omy it is great being back in the room and getting the REPLES that i did

    i had a friens lay me down kiss me from head to toe now remind u just kissung when he got to my feet it was a wooooooooooooooooow i like it never did it befor but it was nice it now done much but when it is it is a very nice felling .

    now will i ever do it to him nooo.we women got differnt kind of feet they smell nicer...lol

    againe glad to be back in the room woooooooooooooohoooooooooooo

  7. what do we all like about feet we walk with them run , dance ............SEX

    forplay haveing u feet kissest toes suck it is a wooooooooow what a turn on i put a pic up in my profile of a man injoying the toe of a women does any body out there do or injoy any thing to do with feet toes?

  8. Welcome back, Ladypc. Its been awhile. I am glad to hear you have your health back, and your sex life is improving, too. You are obviously married to a sensitive man, who was very concerned that anything he might do to or with you might lead to another episode. Nice guy! You are a very lucky woman.

    Check out all the changes. It will take you several weeks to catch up, I am sure, but I can't wait to read your further comments.

    Howard

    i see many many changes now how do i chang my profile.....lol

  9. been a long 2 yeary stents in june 2005 and 2 more in sept2006 i doing much better now and the sex is getten better each time it is like starting over after have my first heart attack hubby was afraide to touch me i tell him dr say it is good .

    we are now at the point that it is new and fun . sex is good for the HREAT it keep it pumping

  10. My one FWB I've known since I was 14, and I told my hb, that I know he doesn't like him (cuz of how he saw him treat me when we lived together as roommates-FWB was kinda a control freak in some ways), I've known him all of my adult life, and I do know that if I ever needed anyone, or anything, my FWB would make sure I was OK, so hb would just have to deal with him. I don't go around bragging or anything when I chat with him, so hb doesn't get all freaked out. :rolleyes:

    i have a FWB

    we was friend since i was 16 . lost each other over the years . found each other againe and now we r FWB we will never part and if hubby don't like it he can hit the curb what he does not know

    whon't kill him

    don't get me wrong i love my hubby

    but u just need the extrar some times

  11. I wanted to post some thoughts on Restless leg syndrome to see if someone else had a similar experince.

    My wife gets this quite a bit, espically if she has been sitting or a long time, like at work, or in the car for long trips. She usually gets it worst when we lay down to go to sleep. When she gets antsy and can't relax, I just whip out the old blue vibrator(which was one of my best purchases ever!) and give her an couple of orgasms and then we have sex and tadaa! She won't be experiencing any more restless leg for the remainder of the night.

    ok u got me

    while have my legs bent to my chest and haveing 2 or 3 orgasms help me sleep better

    never doubt on the sex therapy :P

  12. Yes, I would love to do that to my wife, I know that she will let me when our new bondage cuffs come in. I also plan on trying the altoids tip too.

    I fantasize about most about blowjobs from my wife, giving her pearl necklaces(you know what i mean) and licking her pussy for as long as she can stand it, then going for about 15 more minutes.

    ok Crazy wish me great luck heath and safty

    i got me a play date on july 31,lets see what happends,let see if we get all tied up

  13. I have to reply on this one, the first time I had anal was when I was married. I didn't realize how much I enjoyed it until my divorce. I was on my hands and knees trying out a new toy when I thought why let the other go to waste, I was still using the new toy when I managed to reach the other one and slowly insert it. It felt so good to have both my holes filled so full that I got off in record time.

    omg i love my toys and to have all 3 holes use wow

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  14. I have this freind for a while now .

    i got a hair cut and color.for some reason when we did meet up he like woooooow nice. we kissed and he gab a little of my hair u tuged ob it what a felling,then he did it gaine ooooooooooooops now i'm wet.

    what a orgasum never happened to me befor but now he know it gets me so he does it every time and every time i get wet .....i like it very very much. talk aabout the Power of Red

  15. [coWell lor=#FFCCFF] :P

    Well I would love to have a threesome with you and your intended . What a wedding present that would be!!Im sure he would just love it. And I'm sure we would too!. My pussy is all wet and tingly already. Hmmmm I'm going to have to do something about that pretty soon.

    if i could just have one on my brest and one down on me and a butt plug i be set, i think or will i whant more,if u ask me i think a women knows what a womens needs are and can do it just as well as a man or better.

    i love to fine out one day

  16. I grab my nipples and sometimes when hes really hitting the spot i push his head in there more...

    but usually just rub my nipples

    omg i did the same mthing one day

    he was down there and for some reason i push his head in more ,he say dear i can olny eat so much at a time ........lol i say sprry

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