Thanks for your advice all! I don't remember enough forskin to place my tongue under, but i wasn't looking for that either . So i'll defintly looksy next time. When masterbating him it comes up over the head, but i think it rests just below the head other wise when hes fully aroused. I'll also try slowing down a lot, and being gentler, one good thing is he said he'd be willing to experiment and is willing for me to try hehe. thanks again all! any more advice is welcomed too, and i'll let you know how it goes