EmineNce

Australian Soldier here.. Served in the RTF3 in Oruzgan province. Afghanistan. No yanks in our area, only Dutchies. Thanks for the welcome all.. Cheers

Alright, first off, Thank you all for expressing your opinions on my matter. I enjoy a general total dominance in the bedroom. I like it my way, just a natural method of control. My partner has generally learned to accept many of my dominating ways in the bedroom, From all sorts of sexual activities. keep in mind, I will never take it the level of unwanted sex. No does Mean No and I understand that. However sometimes I do get a bit impatient and frustrated when my partner cannot keep up with my energy levels and needs lol. Either way, I do not cross that line some of you think I may cross, I just get told off for being too controlling in the bedroom and not submissive enough.

I thank you both for taking the time to respond to my thread here.. My expression "Out Of Control" I used in reference to my constant need to be in charge in the bedroom I feel if I do not do it, It is not done right. I like to be dominant and in control, but I do like to be kept in a modest line. my only problem is understanding what the line may be. The idea of BDSM always came off as discouraging however, I'm keen on the last 2 not the first 2 haha. In my experiences in the bedroom I have figured that I like things to run a certain way, My issue is many find that way too confronting or too full on. That is basically my issue here.. Im a control freak in the bedroom and need to know the best way to break that mentality. Regards Jez

G'day Folks, I am having a few issues in my sex life. My partner enjoys "rough" sex, with the hair pulling, biting etc. Before we became a couple she explained to me how she liked to be dominated but she has under estimated her ability to endure. My partner and my partners before her, all express to me that I am "too Dominative" I'm not a small bloke that finds being a force in the bedroom a chore, I serve as an infantry soldier and I do bodybuilding as a hobby... So power is something I very rarely go without. My problem is, many girls find it too off putting that I take almost full control in the bedroom. I try to become submissive to my partner but become easily frustrated when things are not done my way.. I always have high levels of energy which allow me to go completely out of control during sex and as previous partners have said to me, I can be an intimidating force in the bedroom during sex. I understand that I will need to change before things become an issue outside of the bedroom as well. Please help Jez

Thanks for the fast reply, I do have a few questions actually. I believe il have a search through the forums.. Cheers. Jez

Howdy Everyone, I'm finally here after knowing about this forum for a long time. Just figured id come in to get a greater grasp on the sexual world and share my questions with the community here. I come from Australia. Im 21 years old, Ive just returned from overseas in the Army and am looking forward to proposing to my partner.. I'm looking forward to speaking with many of you and learning more about those who wish to share.. For my age I am extremely adventurous and out there. Ready to approach and tackle anything people have to discuss. Best regards Jez