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Thanks so much! We are definitely into bondage, she loves to be spanked and I love spanking her.

I am pretty new to this scene, and I have a play partner that is very submissive. I have no trouble dominating her the way she wants. But now I am kind of confused. She wants to dress up, and serve me. I have no problems with that, but I kinda don't know what to do. She wants to serve me and be at my beck and call, but I have never had anyone do that for me before! What should I have her do? I am normally a pretty self sufficient person and I don't know what chores/tasks to give her. This is something she really wants and I really want to give it to her. But I don't want to fuck it up! Any suggestions/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Chocolatedom

My last 3 girlfriends have been white. 2 of their families were TOTALLY against them dating someone black. And the other girl, well her family really just didnt give a fuck. They saw that I was nice, respectful and was good to their daughter and that was all they needed to know. I get shit from black people all the time (especially the jealous women) asking me why I am dating a white woman. I immediately open my mouth to say none of your fucking business, but now that I am older and so much wiser (i'm 27) I just let them know because she is sweet, loving and she has some GREAT pussy! Now that I am single, I have women black and white that are interested in getting to know me better. But the one that I LIKE and I can get along with will be the one that I will be with. But of course if I find a sub, she will blow any woman out of the water! Chocolatedom

Hello All! I am a Brand New Dom. I am happy and excited by this newfound side to myself. I knew I liked to be aggressive but i didnt know I lOVE to Dominate. I surely know now and it makes sense. I found a part of me I didn't know was missing. Thank God for a wonderful sub that saw it in me before I did. Subs ROCK! Chocolatedom

It would have to be DOM for me. I think subs are wonderful, and sexy. But I gotta be in control!

Thanks So much! I am pretty excited. It was great. I am looking forward to doing it again!

Hello All, I am a new member. I have been reading the bdsm posts carefully. I recently came across a woman that is a sub and wanted me to dominate her. I am a lesbian, an aggressive lesbian, but I have NEVER dominated a woman completely (until tonight)! It was wonderful. I read the beginner's guide to bondage/BDSM. It was GREAT! Thank you Mikayla! I was extremely nervous. I just knew I was going to fuck it up and ruin everything. But I rocked it! I went to a sex store and bought some wrist cuffs, a paddle, a strap and a dildo. I was prepared but still very very nervous. But when I got to her apt, I did what came naturally. I took control of the situation. I NEVER new I had it in me! I always knew how to be aggressive but I didn't know how to be dominant. It also helped that she was a GREAT sub! She was eager, willing and oh so accommodating. She really was awesome. I never, ever considered doing something like this until she brought it up to me. And i'm glad she did! I learned something about myself tonight. And I really do think it was for the better. She will not be my sub permanently, we will be play partners. But It feels right to know that I am a Dom, and I think it is what I have been missing! Thanks for reading my excited rant! Chocolatedom