lisa.lemp

Hi, thanks for your response. No, I haven't had an orgasm during oral sex. He has tried real hard too and I feel like I'm coming close, but it never happens. He feels like he's married to the woman of his dreams and can't make his wife cum and he thinks he isn't big enough or whatever. I told him it's not that. He is willing to try anything. He has tried his fingers and the vibe during sex but it never happens. It only happens if I'm in control of my clit.

Hi, I've been a customer on here for some time and thought I'd join this. I need some help in the sex field in which I find hard to discuss sometimes and thought talking to strangers might be easier. I am recently married and my husband is getting really frustrated because I can't seem to have an orgasm unless I use a vibrator on my clit or use my fingers. He can't seem to get me off without my help. He is beginning to think that he is no good at pleasing me and I know that isn't the fact. The fact is I have always had a difficult time having the big O with just the man doing his thing. In my first marriage of 12 years, I never had an orgasm unless I did it myself. My husband wants to be able to get my off without my help. We communicate well and he has tried everything, but there must be something we haven't tried? Does anyone out there have any suggestions? Thanks