Angelkisses I agree with your man on this one! When I look at my wife, all I see is beauty and sexiness!! She has a little pouch, her butts a little bigger then when we met, but she has had our 2 kids!! She is still the sexiest woman in the world to me! I know what's on the inside that makes her sexy no matter what! Plus, my belly sure is bigger than when we met and she likes it! I don't, but she does and it would be stupid for me to think she is less sexy because she doesn't look the same as when we met!!! Now, I'm not going to say that all women are sexy that has a little pouch or that the little pouch is sexy! I would be lying to all of you if I did! BUT, I will say I have seen plenty of women that were oozing sexy that did have a little pouch and there is nothing wrong with having one!! Most of us(men & women) will develop one as we get older and that seems to be the hardest part to keep in shape! So, if anyone doesn't think that someone is sexy because they have a pouch, then you are going to live a terrible life and have to keep dating girls that are 18 to late 20's and that has never had a baby!! All you ladies need to understand that fact about as we all age, our bodies will change no matter what we do! Maybe 1 out of a 1000 can keep it in prefect shape(genatics more than excercise and made up stat) and if you aren't one of them, you shouldn't feel bad about it! It will just drive you crazy and make your self-esteem go downhill!! You ladies are all beautiful in your own way!!! No need to compare yourselves to these models/actresses that have personal traners and still have to be airbrushed before their pictures go in the magizines!!! See the beauty in yourself and let your partner see the beauty from all angles, inside and out!! Oh well, off my little soapbox!!haha Peace, Mark