Hi All, new to the board so wanted to say hi and thanks for all this amazing information! I was in a relationship for many years that wasn't the best so can't say I enjoyed the act of oral sex much. Broke up and spent six years single so saying I'm a bit 'rusty' is an understatement. I've basically gone about ten years with either unpleasant or no sex....not even a one-nighter. Now, I'm seeing someone that I really like and enjoy being with. I want to please but find myself feeling clueless/insecure in the bj department...it's so frustrating, especially since he's extremely attentive to my needs...maybe too much sometimes. The last time we were together he didn't have me go down on him at all and I suddenly felt like 'oh, oh, my last job must have really sucked...in a bad way that is'. True it wasn't the most comfortable setting (for me anyway - I like room to roll around and play) but still, he just didn't let me near it. The last time there were a couple mishaps with my teeth so perhaps he's a bit nervous That said, we're off on holiday next week and quite frankly I wanna rock his world. At my core I'm the type that totally gets off knowing I'm the one making him squirm and moan; bringing him ultimate pleasure. I just feel majorly insecure I guess. So, as I read through all these tips I had a panic attack - GAWD how am I gonna remember all this? I can't even grasp the figure 8! What do I hum? *lol* But, they're GREAT tips and figured I'll start with one or two. I'm sure once I see positive responses from him, a lot will flow from me more naturally. Will take it one step at a time and heed some common advice throughout the thread - listen for his responses, enjoy what I'm doing and for heavens sake relax! If all goes well, would y'all mind if send a little update when we return? Thanks so much again for the awesome advice! I've read through a lot of the strings on this site and the information is great! Wish me luck!
