My husband has never been able to last longer than a minute or so before cumming. He is great in that he gives me plenty of oral and we use a dildo, so that I am fully satisfied before he actually penetrates me. THe problem is that I often feel a loss of emotion because it is always a dildo or oral stimulation. I never get to feel him in me for more than a minute or so. I was wondering if any of the guys or gals had any suggestions on how he can control himself better. He says he tries but he can't control it.