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There is a small amount of women that can't or don't get any enjoyment from g-spot stimulation. You may be one of them. However, the majority of us can. It takes time to practice.
The first thing to do is to find where YOUR particular g-spot is. It's usually about 2" up inside, but it can vary, woman to woman, since, of course, we're all different. It's an easy spot to miss, since it's generally about a 1" in diameter spoungy spout, that, when stimulated, can cause a woman to take a deep breath, and push down real hard (usually natural/instinctual).
Some women can ejaculate, some can't.
Here's a pic that I stole from Mikayla's article, to help point out where your g-spot is (in general):
There are several books out there about the G-Spot Orgasm:
"THE GOOD VIBRATIONS GUIDE TO THE G SPOT" by CATHY WINKS, published by DOWN THERE PRESS, "UNDERSTANDING THE G SPOT" by DONALD HICKS.
If you are curious about the chemical make up of G Spot fluid as compared to urine, check out "The G SPOT" by LADAS, WHIPPLE AND PERRY, published by DELL POCKETBOOKS.
Mikayla's fantastic article:
Mikayla's G-spot Orgasm Article
I hope this helps!
Thank you for all the info! I know this sounds graphic...but I'm just confused because I have what I think to be a very large
"spongy spot" - one that starts at the entrance to my vagina, and kind of hangs down, then continues on sloping up at least two inches. I do feel SOMETHING when I stimulate deeper inside, something that I think is pleasure, but right when I think it's coming, I pee, and I mean really pee. Hopefully those books will have some sort of answer for me..
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So this is my theory, however depressing:
I think the reason I've been peeing during vaginal stimulation is not because I'm stimulating the g spot, but because I may have no g spot and am simply massaging the urethra which would normally be above the g, causing me to urinate with no climax/ejaculate. Has this happened to anyone? I'm really hoping my theory is wrong.
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If it didn't smell like urine, and was clear, then, yes, you stimulated your G-Spot. It doesn't always produce an orgasm though. The best way to get a g-spot orgasm, in my experience, is to stimulate that AND have clit stimulation. Plus, relax, and, as you did before, make sure to go to the bathroom BEFORE you start your play. If you're worried about a mess, put a towel down beneath you first. If you're not sure what's coming out of you, use a white towel, and after, smell it. If it's not yellow, and doesn't smell like urine....then URINE LUCK! Just kidding. But then you will know that you have had a g-spot orgasm/stimulation!!
Good luck!!
Update: It WAS pee...I tried last night and the build-up and pee feeling came (and I had peed before too!) and then a lot of fluid appeared...like soaked through my towel a lot. And it did smell like it. I thought you weren't supposed to be able to pee with that kind of stimulation? Either I'm doing it wrong, or my anatomy is such that my urethra is getting in the way of my g spot...if i even have one. I did get what I thought was much intense pleasure though. It's such a mystery.
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Pass that book along, sistah!!
I think you might be right because it didn't smell like pee. Hopefully this means I am getting closer to the big O, instead of just ejaculating without the reward. Maybe I'll pick that book up.
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So, I was trying very hard to have a g spot orgasm the other night, and all of a sudden, I peed. Not only that, I had peed before to prevent this from happening. I'm positive it was pee, because I didn't come. What is wrong with me?
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Hmmm I am not so sure about that but I do know that practice makes perfect! I am 38, I just started having them this year!!! Relaxation is key! I haven't been able to do it by myself but my husband can get me pretty much any way you choose, oral, intercourse, toys etc... Just keep trying. When you feel the weird pee feeling just kind of push and then stop. Continue stimulating the spot, it will build and become more intense. You will recognize the pleasure and WANT to continue! It is tricky but once you get it your body does NOT forget in fact it just gets better! Have you used a toy?
No and I think that's what might do the trick for me...considering my hand/boyfriend's hand gets extremely tired/cramped after only a few minutes. thanks for all your help!
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Best article ever... Best wishes!
http://www.tootimid.com/index.php/articles...-g-spot-orgasm/
I read that article! I guess I should try harder...
Another question...Is it possible the birth control pill is making it harder for me to find it/orgasm? I read somewhere that the estrogen from the pill thickens the vaginal wall so that the g spot is harder to get to...
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i have a question...i'm a woman in my early twenties, who's had plenty of great clitoral orgasms but no dice, ever, on the g spot. i feel like i should have one, and that i do...because it swells if i touch there enough and if i combine "g spot" stimulation with clitoral I will have an even more intense clitoral orgasm. my goal is to achieve a g spot orgasm, even if its just on my own and not through intercourse or with my partner. any tips? i've read a lot about how to stimulate...and when i do i get that peeing feeling but then it fades after a while...
G Spot Incapable?
in All About Orgasms
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I really want to believe you are right but it just smells and looks like urine so I'm discouraged, and it keeps on coming whenever I stimulate it. And I haven't had an orgasm off it, so if I really am just ejaculating...ah who knows. I still have hope because I find that if I stimulate the clit with the g spot the urge to pee goes away because I guess I am blocking the urethra...but then I will just have a powerful clit orgasm (which I'm not complaining about!) but the g spot is merely an "accompaniment" to my clit, instead of doing something on its own. Maybe doing something with my SO will bring better results, unfortunately he is out of the country for a month!