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Thanks all! You've gave some excellent advice. My first step is to have a nice long talk with him about the drinking and smoking. Then we can look at other meds for the ED. In the meantime, we'll enjoy some TooTimid toys. lol Mikala: He really doesn't have uncontrollable bp. He takes meds now more to protect against a spike then anything. When he had his stoke he was under pressure from a divorce, his business was having problems, and taking TWO 100 mg tablets for a night of pleasure. Right in the middle of having fun, bam. I need to ask him about "private time pleasure." Again, thanks for the advice. M

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Been a lurker for years. Got a problem and hope you all can help. My significant other age 52 (since April) is a sweetheart BUT his penis is as limp as last month's celery. He smokes and drinks and has had a stroke so he's on high blood pressure medication. The doctor gave him viagra 100 mg. and it ain't working. Any suggestions.... Will another medication work? ...and yes I have told him he needs to stop smoking and drinking....