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You bring up a very good point. My wife has strong powerful legs, calves and thighs, and it is a major turn on when she wraps them around me when we are doing MPMS. BTW when she sometimes raises her legs in the air, I will nibble on her toes

Thanks, Aiden! I will share your comments with my wife. My wife and I have orgasms in other sexual positions (e.g. doggie and side-by-side). I will talk to my wife and see whether we can try your suggestions in MPMS

Thanks for the response whitefanng! When you are in this position, how easy or hard is it to achieve your own orgasm? Maybe this is something my wife and I may try.

Two weeks ago, my wife and I had pleasurable, free and quite erotic sex. What made this particular session unusual was how it concluded: somehow we ended up in the missionary position/male superior (MPMS). I honestly could not remember the last time that we had used this position. Married for almost 18 years, we have tried sexual positions (side-by-side is our favorite) that make it easier for my wife to cum while I am inside her, and MPMS was not doing that for us. In fact, the only time that she did have an orgasm in MPMS was the first time that we made love --- two years before we married. After viewing other threads at this community message board, I have noticed that MPMS is very rarely anyone's favorite position or, quite frankly, used that often, especially as folks reach 25 years and beyond. I would be interested in hearing from you all about the following: 1. When did you stop exclusively using MPMS? 2. Why did you stop using it exclusively ? 3. If you do use MPMS, is it still your favorite position? 4. Under what circumstances do you now use it, if at all? 5. Is MPMS "going the way of the buffalo"? I look forward to the varied responses!

What a noble thing for him to do? Does this occur after 60 minutes? 90? 120? > 150? Blueberry, What type if food? Are you thirsty, too? If you are, what does he bring you to drink? Does he eat and/or drink as well? Why so hungry? I do not know how to delicately ask this, but what do you do to each other to cause this reaction from you?

Alas, Di's Guy, I have not been a voyeur, although I am probably certain that you are your wife would put on quite a show --- after play that is --- for me. I have been heartened by your reflections and the comments that other members have made, especially about that feeling of openness and freedom that one has after having fulfilling sex. Personally, at that time, I am open to revealing anything and everything to my wife, because I know that she will not judge me, make fun of me, think I'm weird, etc. That's why I joined this site, because we can be free to express ourselves. I look forward to hearing from others about this topic!

I really would like to hear from members regarding "after play". After my wife and I both cum, I hold her and she places her head on my chest and proceeds to lick my nipple and stimulate my other nipple with the fingernail of her forefinger. The sensations that I feel from those acts drive me wild. She will drape her leg over my body and run her foot up and down my leg while I try to massage her foot or run my fingernails across her toenails. We feel very relaxed and open to all types of talk including fantasies, previous sexual experiences with other lovers, sexual escapades during our teen years, etc. Please feel free to describe your afterplay experience(s) with your spouse or SO.