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K, I have this lube EVERYWHERE In my house. In the TV room (we have more than one, it's in the adult tv room, placed up HIGH away from children), in the ensuite bathroom, beside my bed...It's even ended up on top of the microwave when my mom and grandma were over once! (they didn't notice). http://images.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=http...l%3Den%26sa%3DG I think it's the same one, anyways. The word on mine says NATURAL. So it's just a plain purple bottle with the word NATURAL on it. It doesn't say LUBE or anything, fyi! ulgh, so get this....after a few drinks the other night, I asked my best friend and her boyfriend this 'valid' question....of course it seemingly is a STUPID question because really, I guess I shouldn't leave it out anyways? I said "at which point do I have to hide my lube from my kids?" :rolleyes: GAWD, that sounded AWFUL coming out of my mouth!!! :( :( Thing is, I've never hidden it because it looks like hand cream or whatever to me. I haven't felt that I NEEDED TO HIDE IT! But I guess I should. (kids are nearly 5, & 7 FYI). Pardon me if this is a truly awful question! I felt sooooo stupid asking it of my friend!

hmmm, what kind of outfit do you think would go? Do you want it to be sexy, or should it be more conservative (yet still sexy) to downplay the total shoe sexyness?

great idea! BUT wait, we PROBABLY shouldn't wear them in public...or around our kids! LOL

oooh, very cool! CAN you wear them out but are afraid? MINE will totally fall off of my feet unless I walk at a snail's pace. which is SOOOOO not me! HOW I didn't realize that in the store is BEYOND ME.

I think you make a good point. Giving my address out would make me VERY nervous. I hate to admit that, but it's true.

awh, how cute are you? Thanks! Yes, I suppose his background/upbringing would factor in....

I think it does. I think women compare themselves to these perfect plastic babes with PERFECT bodies (in high end porn, anyways). And we can't compare. And so we (some of us, anyways) think we aren't as desirable as those physically PERFECT 20 year old's... I think (in some cases) that MEN also don't know what normal women LOOK Like anymore either. THEY compare their women to PORN women and expect them to LOOK like that. And it can effect men's desire level for the REAL women in their lives. Of course, i believe this because I have personal experience with BOTH viewpionts. Interesting N. Wolfe article which supports what I am saying... http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/trends/n_9437/ DEBATE!

good attitude. Maybe I'm so warped because the father of my children didn't have quite as good of an attitude. I totally agree with you though! I think porn also skews how women feel about thier bodies and how MEN see women's bodies. I smell a spinoff! (off to post!)

LET'S start that movement! k, seriously, that story about what your husband said BROUGHT tears to my EYES! SERIOUSLY. I wonder if I'm PMS-ing? Because I could truly cry over that story!!!! I love your husband! (in a purely platonic way, of course, LOL).

I know, I know! TOTALLY One of my own pet peeves about this pic too! In reality, the shoes are SUPER cute but very impractical. I bought them to actually WEAR OUT LIKE PEOPLE DO with shoes, however even though they felt fine in the store, they slip right off my feet when I walk at a normal pace! So they have been delegated to my "naked pics" shoes. LOL. Funny that I now have shoes that I ONLY wear in naked pics!

can you explain to me the point of glass? I just don't get it. I don't have one, of course....so I'm curious what the "attraction" is.

I totally agree. Once again, one of the reasons I started this was to show variety and the fact that we can all be sexy. And to see what REAL men thought. I hear ya on the compliments. It only goes against what my ex-h convinced me to be true, and what my boyfriend thinks of me, which of course is much more positive. As for the pics, um, ya, I didn't mention this to my bf....and I'm a bit afraid of him finding out.....

THANK you, you are very good at the pep talk thing! Big huge thanks. Good imagery with the PT barnum tent thing. LOL.

thanks. The funny thing is HE has flaws and I LOVE them....they make him him, and unique. So why can't I be so kind to myself? I think it's what you said, "society". And the sad thing is society is getting the idea of what is beautiful from HOLLYWOOD, which AIRBRUSHES and alters photos! Plus the stars themselves are rich and have trainers and cooks and get themselves looked after, REGULARLY! I love what your husband said. That is very cute. My ex-h said he would 'eventually learn to ACCEPT my post baby body'. NOT so nice! I too used to flinch when my BF touched my tummy (I don't now, I just think thoughts in my head, yk? Because I'm TRYING to put forth a confident attitude as I know that in itself is sexy!) too.... Ha! All of the shots I've posted here, I'VE taken, ALONE. HE only gets to see the ones I've studied and poured myself over (figuratively) to see if my flaws are minimized or hidden. LOL. I've not yet been brave enough to have him take the shots. Good for you!

...took this last year for my BF... I was trying to up my self esteem by proving to myself that I could be sexy. I have this pic framed in my bedroom now over my bed.

Brief description... k, I have stretch marks (from having babies) on my previously perfect stomach. I gained a LOT of weight while pregnant (both times) but lost it all...and now I have these faded, bumpy stretch marks. My stomach has returned to being flat, but I still have these stretch marks. I was sitting there last night with my boyfriend (not the father of my kids, if that matters...I'm not with the father any longer as some of you probably know from my posts) who knows no different with me body wise. He never knew my perfect stomach. All he's known is my post baby body. Which he seems to love. I was sitting there, and my stomach was wrinkling up like stomachs do when people SIT, but on top of that the skin is bumpy due to the stretch marks. He leaned over, and kissed my tummy passionately. I was sitting there thinking "how can he think that that's sexy?" I'm probably being hard on myself here. As I've said before my ex wasn't so kind about my post-baby body. My boyfriend doesn't seem to care. I find it embarrassing. Maybe I think he SHOULD care, because he's younger than me (almost 26) and he could get a young woman with no stretch marks....or maybe I think because my ex, the father of my kids and the reason that they are THERE (NOT THAT i regret having my babies, AT ALL!!!!!!!!) rejected me (not solely because of the s.marks, but he wasn't attracted to me in general) that maybe the man that I'm with now should also think that they are ugly. Sorry guys, my self esteem troubles are rearing their ugly head, now focusing on my stomach. Any pep talk will help!!! EDITED TO ADD: here is a pic of me taken last year. I guess I'm trying to point out that this is really no big deal. It's my ex that has possibly screwed me up and "helped" me think that I wasn't sexy. I can't take a pic of my crunched-up-sitting-on-the-couch-stomach that I was speaking of in this post right now unfortunately (camera issues). http://forums.tootimid.com/index.php?showtopic=8547

From what I understand circumcision is getting less popular. Anyone have any current USA stats? Even though I started this post, and I love my cut man, I do think that this IS the direction we should be going in.

That was one of the reasons I started this post. I wanted to see the variety and what the comments would be. I like your perspective & the general perspective of this thread! Hugs to all!

Love the shave. My boyfriend does that too and it's really hot. In my opinion. Nice.

gorgeous!!!!

R we starting a man thread?

Your pic is unbelievably amazing. This is all so fun. Who knew this thread would be so popular? LOL.

thank you! Seems like nipples is my "thing". I like them too...

I will do that! Thank you...