I have been divorced one year. Abusive marriage. Got out alive and on the way to recovery. I ordered my first sex toy and it was a disaster. It was the iVibe rabbit. Used it for 20 minutes and NOTHING happened. And I mean nothing. No stimulation (the rabbit ears were too flexible and not in a good place). The little bead things were just plain annoying. I am an athletic, petite girl who has never tried anything before. Any help appreciated.