i just ordered my first toy. my boyfriend doesn't know that i did. i was just wanting to try 2 spice up our sex life. how do i approach this with him. i don't want him 2 feel like he doesn't do the job for me. we have sex everyday and everytime i cum, well a lot of the time i get muliple orgasms. so how do i bring this into the picture without him thinking less of himself? it's more for the fun of it.