hellokitty711

I shake the bed....

Thank you all for your incite, I will try something and then will let you know. The only benefit is that after he gets mad, he really opens up later sometimes days later. It has really added spice. I think I just need to lay it on him. Thank you all again P.S. pappyld04 The game looks fun. thanks for finding it.

I have to admit, I was naive in the past, mostly because he told me time and again that he NEVER touched himself. I always thought that was a stretch, but I had nothing else to base it on. I got married kinda young, just out of my teens, came from a family that even now my mom thinks sex toys are an abomination, and a bible thumping father. Admitting to masturbating came just recently. I told him that I already knew he was. He was surprised. I knew because of this site, and I work in a shop with only men, really open mouthed, loud guys. I told him I was glad that he told me, and that it was great. I was willing to help anytime. The only reason I am upset is because he is HIDING it. He recorded a soft porn off of a movie channel once and I saw it on the DVR list. I protected it just to see what he would say. He told me he accidentally recorded it, he meant to record a kids show. I don't really know how to get him to open up about it. I am interested in getting more toys, for him and me, but his reactions really aren't all that great. I have reassured him that no toy could ever replace him. But so far it doesn't seem to be working. Maybe I could broach the subject after having a few, and we could shop for some??? I also know that we could use some more communication. This is apparent even to me. It is just he gets so hot under the collar about sex. I guess that my hope is that he will be able to say one morning, "babe, I watch a porno last night.." and I'll be able to say "Was it any good" P.S. Tyger, I know he is turning it off and hiding it from me, and not the kids, because we had just finished watching it and the kiddies were sound asleep. One more question, are the DVDs of the month worth signing up for? I have entertained the idea for quite a while, but I haven't really watched much porn, and have no idea what to look for.

My hubby has always been a little shy. He has also acted like a prude. He made me feel as though I were cheating on him, or somehow hurting him if I were to masturbate. So a year or so ago, I got really brave and bought fun factory smartballs. When he found them, he went ballistic!! I guess I should have told him but I just didn't have the guts. However, he has opened up a lot since then. He admitted to me that he masturbates in the shower, we have tried anal, and I have expressed interest in watching porn with him. (suggestions on one would be great). He also wants to watch me masturbate. I also would like to get a few more toys. But then again I don't want to offend him My first venture into porn, to show him i wasn't afraid(before i told him I was interested) was to buy Zombie Strippers. After the movie I went to shower, coming out he was scrambling for the remote to turn off the DVD player. This type of situation has happened a couple of times. Then on friday, while I was at work my daughter called and told me dad was looking at naked ladies on the computer. I was pissed that he used our computer and let our daughter see it(not much luckily). I am also hurt. I don't know how to confront him because I searched the computer and know exactly where he went. I only want him to be more open. He was watching some girl masturbate with a toy. Not a biggy. except I have a bullet(freebe from too timid) and he always is making snide comments about "MY EGG". like it is a replacement for him. I've been thinking about getting him Pirates, and writing him a letter to tell him how I feel. That way he has a chance to think things through. I don't know. Maybe get a few toys while i'm at it. Thanks a bunch guys ; )

All through my 20's I believed that sex toys were for the "weird". But I was always curious. So after 2 kids I bought fun factory smart balls from drugstore.com. I was searching reviews and stumbled across Mikayla's review. I have since been opening up with my DH about some of my desires, trying to introduce some toys. Bought some ties here at TT for valentines day. Well this weekend he admitted after years of telling me that he never touched himself. that it was dirty, making me feel bad, that he couldn't get enough of me and had to "help himself". Boy was I stoked! So now I want to get him some toys of his own. He is still in the dark ages(no lube, sleeves etc.) Thought that I could ask for some advise in that area. I also admitted to him that I wanted to try to watch porn with him. He denies watching it, then he bought me Zombie Strippers with Jenna Jameson. I thought that it would be a good time to bring up the subject. He was very surprised. So after reading your posts forever, I feel that I already know a lot of you, and am looking forward to more chatting and advice. Thanks!!!! .

Hello to all!!!! I have been lurking on this website for over a year. I have read all of Mikayla's articles, and lots of topics on the forums. I have to say that this site is having a great impact on my sex life. I hope to continue learning from this great community. Thank you!!!!!!!