panurse

Hi there... I have a question and hoping someone can help.... My husband and I have been together for 17 years and married for 14 years. While we've always had good sex when it happens...it doesn't happen enough. My personality is more independent and dominant....however, when it comes to the bedroom, it's the last place I want to be the dominant one! I have expressed my concerns with my husband and nothing ever really changes. Sometimes I feel like I'm the man in the relationship because I want it more than he does....or at least that's how I feel. I guess I just want that good ole' drunk sex without being drunk. I don't know...just feeling very frustrated and upset.