Hello everyone Newbie here! I have been with my DH for 11yrs married going on 2yrs we have 2 kids and all is good but lately my sex drive has been next to ZERO yeah ZERO I just don't feel the need and is crazy because i love sex... I some how found this site and ordered some new toys and lotions, and hope this will help my DH and I ... how do couple that have been together for so long coupe with the routine of life, sex ect... Thanks