This is embarressing for me to ask for help from people i dont know, but its all i got. Today i went to my boyfriends house and i had a really bad head ache and i was waiting for him to get out of the shower. i was laying down in a tee shirt and panties. He came out and wanted to get things a little steamy, which is fine, i was starting to get turned on and then it ,for some reason, started to seem awkward for a bit. Then he asked me , let i remind you this is embarressing for me, he says "When are you gonna be sexy about sex" i DIDNT NO WHAT TO SAY. i thought we had great sex, and i do some things i never have before with him, and it totally insulted me. I started to give him oral, which was terrifying at first b/c i had never done that, and now im cool with it, and i tried to play with myself during sex to get him turned on more, and now i dont no how to be sexy i guess.... it makes me upset to think that im not making him happy i guess or im not sexy enough for him, and it totally brought my confidence done a ton! Can anyone give me some knew tips on how to be sexy and turn my man on???????