Ok, we've been experiencing 2 issues in the bedroom lately, and I thought I'd throw it out there to see if anyone has any experience or insight: We're both 40, have been married for over 15 years, great marriage. As with most people, our sex lives have waxed and waned over the years. Right now I'm in a very high libido mode; I'd love to have sex every day or two. My husband's sex drive seems to be a lot lower than that, and lower than it was a couple of years ago. He's interested in sex once, maybe twice in a week. We have lots of affection when we're not having sex, so this is probably something I just need to accept. The other issue, though, is that lately he is not getting to the finish line fairly often when we do have sex. No ejaculation, no climax. We go at it for a long time, but he just doesn't get there. This used to never happen, but now I'd say it happens every 5th or 6th time we have sex. And when he does cum, that takes a lot longer than it used to also. I don't think this is a sign of health problems, is it? That's my first concern, but I also just want him to get all the pleasure he deserves. So I'm just wondering if you would be concerned about his health; do you think it's just normal for his age (both the lower libido and the delayed/missing ejaculation), and do you think there's anything I can do to help. We've discussed the sex drive issue a lot, but not the ejaculation; I've been reluctant to bring it up because I don't want him to feel like I think there's something wrong with him, but I am going to talk to him about it.