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I have been married for 5 yrs, have 3 little ones and love my husband! I think he is a hottie, thoughtful and an awesome dad. He helps out around the house and he is probably the closest thing to the perfect guy. Problem lies with me. I hve no sex drive. I realize hormone levels change after childbirth and our youngest is 4mo. but we might have sex once a month and if I DON'T STEP UP my great guy may not want to be so great anymore. I have been looking at herbal supplements claiming to enhance female libido, I have tried masturbating some-cause if you don't use it-youo loose it right? Well not working. Although I am a grown woman I am still pretty shy about sex but I NEED some advice so bring it on. Thanks