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  3. The Room Mate Marriage

    in Dating and Relationships

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    Wow......it sounds like you went through a lot. Marriage is definitely work. There are tons of ups and downs. I think that children do tend to take sides. Hopefully, someday her sons will come around. You were an important part of their lives.

    I do believe that stress can cause a lot of problems also. I am glad that you are doing so much better. Yes, there does come a time in everyone's lives where you have to take a stand and just be happy for YOURSELF. I'm glad that you are finally happy.

    You're right, marriage is work but it shouldn't be worked only from one side. The 2nd time we went to a therapist, she didn't have a clue what I was describing wrong with our marriage.. pure denial there was a problem at all. I made it 4 sessions before I told her I wanted out. I couldn't give myself anymore than I had already done, I was exhausted, stressed and just burned out. I didn't want to fight over anything, all I took with me was my dignity, self respect and a few family heirlooms. That was almost 3 yrs ago. I haven't been this happy since I was in my late 20's. Live and learned, ignore the negative opinions, go against the grain if that's how you feel and NEVER settle when it comes to a SO or spouse.

    My oldest step son has kind of come around, but we're more like buddies now than anything. I think he's afraid to look like he's taking sides with me over his mom (I don't blame him) so he keeps his distance. My youngest step son was distant even before the split.. we butted heads a lot due to his many social disorders (highly functioning slight autism, genius level IQ, ADHD along with his inherited manic depression.) Nothing seemed to make him happy and his view was black and white, no gray allowed. Shortly after I left, he moved in with his Dad.

    Our son never shed a tear (he was 7) and knew exactly what was going to happen, since he had friends at school with divorced families. He was sad, but he took it the easiest out of the 3. He's my everything and he knows it.:)

  4. Mile High Club Contest

    in Contests & Fun Questions

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    Are you a member of the Mile High Club? Tell us your story or fantasy!

    The Mile High Club is possibly the easiest club to get into, if you know what I mean. ;)

    How to enter:

    Simply reply back to this post and answer this question:

    Are you a member of the Mile High Club? Tell us your story or fantasy!

    We will be giving away three Butterfly Kisses!

    We really love reading your responses! If you have any feedback on these contests, please feel free to message me directly. Good luck!

    It's been a fantasy of mine (Really, who doesn't have this one?) but haven't had the opportunity.......yet. My Gf and I have already agreed, IF we win the lottery, we ARE going to charter a jet for a 4-5 hour flight, just for this purpose. Yes, the riskiness is lost this way, but the quality with the time given trumps it.:D:D:D:D

  8. Dirty Talk

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

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    LOL I've noticed, the hotter and hornier I get, the more F words I use... "OMG, Your pussy feels so fucking good... I'm going to fuck you hard and deep until we explode together"

    Yeah, the dirty talk is a must have in the bedroom at the very least. BUT we can be out, walking around a farmers market or inside a store, I'll step behind her like I'm going to hug her, and as I hold her against me, I'll whisper in her ear "I can't wait to taste your sweet pussy first chance I get" and then walk away like nothing was said, teasing her... she'll return the favor by "accidentally" squeezing my cock as she walks past me.. Shopping has never been so fun.:D Once we're home (IF we make it that far) it is game on!!!

  10. The Room Mate Marriage

    in Dating and Relationships

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    I was married for 8 and a half years. Things were great in the beginning, she has 2 boys from her previous marriage and I took them in, loved and raised them as my own, even though their "donor" was still in the picture. We had another son together and after about 4 years of being married, life seemed to pull us in different directions. Yes, we were a family, but "we" were no longer a couple. The "us" time was simply sleeping in the same bed, sex was bi-monthly at best and there just wasn't the feeling of togetherness anymore. We did the counseling thing, tried "date night" once a week and things got better.. for about 3 months before things got back into a rut. It wasn't for lack of trying on my end but i decided to stay for the kids.

    That lasted 2 years before I realized I needed to be happy and left. There were other factors involved that turned my feelings for her into resentment as well. (her drinking had become too much for me to handle, as well as the verbal abuse that came with it.) I was just done. The older boys turned their backs on me as if I'd abandoned them, even though they were old enough to understand a LOT. Our son did just fine and bounced right back. (Especially since he found out about dual birthdays, Christmas, Easter, etc. LOL) ;)

    Strange how the human body works. 3 yrs before i left, I was having back problems (spasming in the night), went to my doctor, then a specialist, MRI's, Scans, blood work..everything came back normal. We bought a new expensive bed, tried a dozen or so pillows, anything for possible relief. I also had severe heartburn and was doing pepto bismol shots nightly. 1 week after I left, my back was normal and the heartburn was gone. :) NOT one Dr. thought about stress as the reason. :angry:

  18. Will It Make You Hot If.........

    in Everything Else

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    Yes, you wouldn't have to beg!

    Would it make you hot I pushed you down and got into the 69 position so we both can be pleased?

    YES!! I Love being "taken" and controlled once in a while. Mutual pleasuring at the same time is a HUGE turn on for me.

    Would it make you hot if I tongued your ass while fingering your sweet pussy?

  19. Tpbm (the Person Below Me)

    in Everything Else

    Posted

    ABSOLUTELY!!!! :P (I love a man in a suit... to undress)

    TPBM - Loves to undress a women to see the sexy undergarments?

    True.. VERY slowly, one item at a time to absorb the look, the feel and to tease, both her and myself letting the excitement build...

    TPBM has had their panties removed by teeth? :D

  21. Tpbm (the Person Below Me)

    in Everything Else

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    Can't remember it'd been so long since I've had phone sex......

    TPBM - has been doing loads of research lately?

    uh huh huh huh huhhuh You said "loads" (sorry, Beavis and Butthead moment)

    Yes. Researching sex swings as a future purchase, but also searching for a more stable job. :)

    TPBM Loves dressing up, to get undressed later? ;)

  25. Tpbm (the Person Below Me)

    in Everything Else

    Posted

    Absolutely true

    TPBM has had some awesome phone sex recently when they were apart from their partner

    False. :( It's been awhile since playtime over the phone has happened.

    TPBM has a more intense orgasm while having phone sex, as opposed to just taking matters into their own hands, without the audio help.

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