So She Wants To Be Spanked?

[JJ_Amie]

Alright, my wife has been reading books like "50 shades of gray" and other books about men spanking women. I didn't think anything of it. I mean just because she reads fiction about, didn't mean she was into it. All is well, I mean she even tried some new stuff and I thought it is cool. But then in some of our flirtations, she has hinted on a couple of occasions the need of a spanking. I brushed it off the first couple of times. She is provoking it too.

Now please understand, I come from an Ole South upbringing. Ladies are suppose to be treated as princesses. I still hold the open the door for her. I escort her as if we were still date. I still say yes ma'am and no ma'am to her. After 14 years of marriages and countless arguments, I have never called her a "bitch" or any ugly name. I have ran off people who have been disrespectful to her. I have never even dared raise a hand to her, she is precious to me. In my family and where I am from, you just don't hit women (if for no other reason than, its a good way to end up dead.)

I know that this wouldn't be the same as actually hitting her, I just need some guidance here. I guess you would say I have lived a sheltered existence as far as this goes. I don't think she wants to be humiliated or abused. I will be honest, I don't know what she is wanting. Any guidance would be appreciated.