Members H. Housewife Posted October 26, 2017 Members Report Share Posted October 26, 2017 My husband asked his friend to take me out somewhere since my husband works so much. His friend tells him that's weird because I'm the wife. So my husband feels horrible because his friend won't and I can't confront his friend I supposed to not know. That happened plenty of times before. That just depressed me so much I ended up shedding tears and thankful I wore sunglasses today. Not exactly feeling so human after thinking about that during a walk I took. Yes I know I over think things and I tell myself it's not me but most of it probably is. I try not to feel any self pitty or self disrespect but sometimes I cant help it. Yes I can be loud and too happy which might embarrass people but I'm really not a huge jerk. 🙏 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2017 Report Share Posted October 27, 2017 I don't understand your relationship with your so I guess ,I think his friend may think it might get out of control if there is an attraction between you.but I really don't think its you ,you seem like a great person.don't listen to those voices of depression and what their trying to tell you because there a lies!!! I go through it too.keep your chin up .my personal opinion ...it should make him feel horrible,and like a piece of poo.is he that busy not to take 2 hrs from his day to make you feel special? Sorry I just don't know the situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members H. Housewife Posted October 27, 2017 Author Members Report Share Posted October 27, 2017 14 hours ago, GirlCrush said: Are you upset that the Friend and is it a Guy? Wouldn't take you out? Or are you upset that your Husband asked him? For me I wouldn't take it personal on the friends part. If that's the case. I feel its best that he doesn't. I know someone that happen to and they had an attraction that lead to more. I don't feel its you more then the Friend feeling its not right to take another mans wife out. Maybe I got the story all wrong. But Im pretty sure its not you. I think about both that my husband asked and his friend doesn't want to he feels weird. I'm not attracted to his friend and mabye I'll embarrass him in public. I'm constantly turned down when I ask people to hang out mabye where I live the people like to stay at home. At least I won't be here much longer. Thank for your opinion 🙏 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members H. Housewife Posted October 27, 2017 Author Members Report Share Posted October 27, 2017 1 hour ago, MMMike said: I don't understand your relationship with your so I guess ,I think his friend may think it might get out of control if there is an attraction between you.but I really don't think its you ,you seem like a great person.don't listen to those voices of depression and what their trying to tell you because there a lies!!! I go through it too.keep your chin up .my personal opinion ...it should make him feel horrible,and like a piece of poo.is he that busy not to take 2 hrs from his day to make you feel special? Sorry I just don't know the situation. My husband works crazy hours and I feel bad about complaining he's a great guy. I'll have to make a suggestion to him not to ask that to any of his friends because it makes me feel like an obligation. There's no attraction with his friend and I figure he's busy with whatever he does during the day. I'm trying not to feel like too much like Charlie Brown and I love talking to people making them laugh. Thank you for your opinon🙏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 20, 2017 Report Share Posted November 20, 2017 It kinda sounded like your husband was looking for a "wife-sitter"? If so, I'm sorry. Your husband should be making at least a little time for you. Work is important, but so is the relationship between spouses. It is kind of weird to ask a friend to take your spouse out, if that person doesn't know you well, or is a single person. I can see why people wouldn't want to do that. It could be a recipe for disaster, but, at the very least, to me, it's a bit insulting because it's like your husband thinks that a substitute is acceptable so he doesn't have to try and make time for you himself. This is problematic, IMHO. Not only is the possibility of cheating, the suspisions that could arise, distrust between your and your husband or his friends, or yes, even cheating. I mean, why can't he make time for you? He needs to make time for you! Date night is important. Sorry, but this just irked me reading it. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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