Members trista Posted February 7, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 7, 2007 Hi, I would like to try a roleplay with my hubby but not sure what one would be good to start with. He is not as open about sex as I am but this has been a fantasy of mine. Should I just go for it and do it? I would love to hear any ideas or tips.thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 9, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 9, 2007 I am thinking of doing like a school girl or maybe like his love slave. for the school girl i was thinking a short skirt and a tight sweater and playing like a virgin that doesn't know anything about sex or pleasing her man. That way he could take control and show me. I'm just worried that he wouldn't take control as that is my job . I think that is my greatest fantasy for him to take control. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted February 12, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 I am thinking of doing like a school girl or maybe like his love slave. for the school girl i was thinking a short skirt and a tight sweater and playing like a virgin that doesn't know anything about sex or pleasing her man. That way he could take control and show me. I'm just worried that he wouldn't take control as that is my job . I think that is my greatest fantasy for him to take control.Sounds great so far, add some mary jane shoes and put your hair in pig tails if it is long enough. I get turned on by the school girl outfits. Oh yes dont forget the cute white up to the calf socks. Glenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 12, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Hi Glenn, Thanks, I got the school girl outfit. Still need to get the shoes though and I do have long hair so i'm thinking of braiding it and putting my hair in pig tails.Just hope my hubby gets turned on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 12, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Trista: One of the secrets to making role playing work is to talk about role playing with your SO, so you know what he likes, and what is a turn off. I don't particularly find having sex with a little girl a turn on, simply because I have such deep feelings about pedophiles, and child molesters. However, there are many other role playing games I do like. So, If my SO was going to surprise me by playing a role, It would be nice to have talked to her about this in advance, so she would pick a role that wuuld work for both of us. Just because you know your SO is going to surprise you sometime by playing a role does not diminish its effectiveness. In fact, some role playing works best when you both are in the the game! I am thinking of role playing in public places, say, where you go to a bar where neither of you are known, and pretend to be picked up by your husband as a hooker. You can dress the part, and act the part, and he can act the part of the barroom lothario who hits on all the good looking women to see if he can " get lucky ". He might even be able to win some money betting other men on at the bar on his ability to get you to go out with him. So, talk to your husband or SO about role playing and find out what kind of games turn him on, and what doesn't. It would not take much of a change to go from " little Lolita ", to a " nurse ", or" candy striper ", who is sent in to give him a washing. Use your imagination, but use his imagination, too. HowardThanks Howard,I see your point about the sex with a little girl. Hmmmm, well we have watched some porn together maybe I could be his porn star and still use some of the things I have bought short skirt, thong stuff like that. I will talk to him tonight and see how he feels about it i guess i would rather know how he feels then have him just think it is funny. I know we should have fun with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted February 13, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 Hi Glenn, Thanks, I got the school girl outfit. Still need to get the shoes though and I do have long hair so i'm thinking of braiding it and putting my hair in pig tails.Just hope my hubby gets turned on If there is a hang up about the school girl outfit representing pediphilia, have him dress up in a school outfit also. Go park the park and make out like two horny school kids. I never went to a catholic school but I always thought the uniforms were very sexy even when I was in jr high. maybe it a good thing I didnt go to a catholic school after all. I have known couples to go park in there own drive way. For my wife and I, if we want to get caught we can just park in her parents drive way. wont be the first time we been caught. Glenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 13, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 LoL, my husband and I were talking about this last night. We were both 15 years old when we got together and I was telling him we could make out like when we were teenagers. I just want everyone to know that I did want to seem like i was a little girl with this. I have kids and i work with kids and i would never let ANYONE hurt them. I'm sorry if it came across that way.I just thought that the school girl outfits were sexy and I'm trying to bring some new sparks to my marriage and just trying to think of new things to try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted February 14, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 LoL, my husband and I were talking about this last night. We were both 15 years old when we got together and I was telling him we could make out like when we were teenagers. I just want everyone to know that I did want to seem like i was a little girl with this. I have kids and i work with kids and i would never let ANYONE hurt them. I'm sorry if it came across that way.I just thought that the school girl outfits were sexy and I'm trying to bring some new sparks to my marriage and just trying to think of new things to try.Make sure you send the kids away the night you do this but beware, making out in the car has lead to a few oooopses for some couples. Of course these days I can get charged up running into a store that sells marital aids then I run home and toss the lady on the bed. she says "honey lets wait til you have haddinner" which I then reply "love, you are the dinner". Hopefully you get a big pay off for dressing up that way, the naughty nurse is good also. a enema, a anal thermometer,and some astroglide and the instructions to cough up a fluid sample is not a bad idea to have him call in sick some time from workGlenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 18, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 Hmmmmmmmmmm, the naughty nurse does sound good. I will have to give that one some thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jaxxy Posted February 23, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 I wouldnt worry too much about the having sex with a little girl problem that has been brought up. The school girl look is a very popular sexy look and I'm sure that when your husband sees you in it he's not going to be thinking of little girls. You are both adults and playing! Have fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 26, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 26, 2007 I wouldnt worry too much about the having sex with a little girl problem that has been brought up. The school girl look is a very popular sexy look and I'm sure that when your husband sees you in it he's not going to be thinking of little girls. You are both adults and playing! Have fun! thanks jax,I ordered a nurse's outfit. Does anyone have any ideas for this roleplay? I have been teasing him a little about this one so i know he is looking forward to it and so am i. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jaxxy Posted February 26, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 26, 2007 Well about a million thoughts went through my head when I read nurses outfit, but I guess my most eloquent response would be..... YES! WOOHOO! dam girl anything you can think of will work lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 27, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2007 Well about a million thoughts went through my head when I read nurses outfit, but I guess my most eloquent response would be..... YES! WOOHOO! dam girl anything you can think of will work lol.Thanks jax, now thats the kind of reaction I want out of my husband! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Edge Posted February 27, 2007 Report Share Posted February 27, 2007 don't forget the latex gloves! That'll make him laugh or.....?and no nurse's shoes, go for impractical, yet SEXY, heels.(lucky dog your husband is...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 27, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2007 Wow Howard ,Thanks for all the great ideas!!! This sounds like it could be alot of fun I hope he will get into it. I ordered the outfit on friday but didn't show him the picture of it. I have been teasing him so i know he is wondering whats up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted February 27, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2007 don't forget the latex gloves! That'll make him laugh or.....?and no nurse's shoes, go for impractical, yet SEXY, heels.(lucky dog your husband is...)Thanks Edge, Wish he thought he was a lucky dog I do have some sexy high heels that i got from Frederick's of Hollywood. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members AllisonWonderland Posted March 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 6, 2007 Awesome! Just make sure you're in control there.. that's a nurse's job. Things like "tell me where it hurts" and a close, physical examination inspecting every inch of him should be perfect. You won't have to play long before he rips off your cute little costume. Now that I think about it, try to leave it on while you're having sex... that, along with the heels should really work him over! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie romanic Posted March 18, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted March 18, 2007 trista - I have an idea for a way to set up schoolgirl roleplay and drive your guy crazy with anticipation at the same time. And because you would be playing a college girl, the kiddie issue is resolved. Early in the day, leave him a note that reads something like:Professor - OMG, I've really been struggling in your Human Sexuality 101 class, especially the chapter on Fellatio Techniques. Would you PLEASE meet me at 8PM this evening to give me some private tutoring and practice before the big oral exam next week. Maybe you could also give me an assignment so I can earn some extra credit to improve my grades. I'm really desperate - I'll do just about ANYTHING to do well in your class.Would love to hear how this works out!romanic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trista Posted March 23, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 Thanks for the wonderful ideas. I did dress up in the school girl outfit but just did a little strip for him not a roleplay but we did have good sex.I have not done the nurse at all yet because he has not been in the mood. We have not done anything for a few weeks now. I feel his lack of desire is killing my desire at this point Hopefully things will change and if they do I have some wonderful new things to try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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