Members daytoa Posted October 16, 2005 Members Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 I had a ? I can only have a orgasm when I am on top, why is that? Also I can not relax enough to even get wet when we start. I am embarrased to ask the doctor for pills to help. I have had this problem since I first started having sex and got worse after having a child. Any suggestions? I want to have orgasms so bad except being on top. I can't even have them playing with myself. Is there a book or toy that might help.? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sexycouple19 Posted October 19, 2005 Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 I can really only have orgasms when I'm on top also! Basically the reason for the is because when I'm on top I can control what his penis touches most of the time which helps alot out with him hitting my g spot! I basically trained my body to have orgasms in different positions! Like being on top an stopping myself right before an orgasm hits, if you do that a couple of times and rotate to another position, it usually helps you have an orgasm! PLUS, that is a "Tantric" technique! If you stop yourself from having the orgasm a few times it helps make your actual orgasm REALLY intense and wonderful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members crazy1 Posted October 25, 2005 Members Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 It is hard for women to achive orgasm for many reasons. Most however are psychological. If you can have orgasm, I wouldn't worry about it though. I thing Sexy had it right. Start working up to it and then switch positions. It will also give your man a little time to recoupe and build his own orgasm too. As for vaginal dryness you can always use a bit of lube to make things more comfortable before you begin. My prefered is a water base lube like astroglide. That stuff is fantastic! If my wife an I are gonna have a quickie, we just slide some on me, then put a bit just inside her labia and slip in. It is a different sensation than natural lubricant to me but all the same it is still very nice. Try it, you can get astroglide just about anywhere. Even stores like Wal-mart carry it now and with the self check out lines you don't have to be embarrased about who sees you buying it. Good Luck and have fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie first Posted December 12, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted December 12, 2005 I need a advanced member or some one to help me . I dont know how to talk dirty to my partner whe I do I end up laughing and he laughs to i want to secduce him and I dont know how Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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