crazy1

Hey, I totally admit to liking it when my wife plays with my backdoor, and I can honestly say, I am not gay. I have given it some real thought and consideration when I was young. I have had experiences where I can fully say, nope, I am not gay. But I love anal play!

SO stands for Significant Other.

No Sexykitty, I am not on viagra. Or any other sexual enhancement product, perscription or other. I just find my wife very sexy, and when we get time alone, and we are both horny, We can take our time and really enjoy one another. I loved that day, it is one of my all time favorite times with my wife. I will say that we probably never intended to do it that many times when we were out there, but we would go a round, then rest for a second or two, one of us would start oral on the other, or anything else for that matter, and a few minutes later, it would be another position and more sex. What a wonderful day......

In my mind, this is a real problem. I don't know that sex is a dealbreaker like you ask, but I will say that it is a KEY component to a happy marriage. I may not be an expert, but to me it sounds like he just has become too involved with porn, and now that he is stateside, he doens't feel like jerking off. He figures, I did enough of that while I was over there, so now, I am home, my wife has a pulse and a vagina, I bet she would get something out if it too! This is why I truly despise pornography. I think it creates unreal expectations and can become the primary source of stimulation, thus decreaseing your desire for intercourse with your living, breathing, human spouse. What you are asking for in, a little consideration, is nothing short of a basic quality in a loving marriage. I say, sit down with him in a non-sexual atmosphere, and in a non-threatening way, just lay out what your expectations are, and how you feel. Try to get him to understand that his sexual practices leave you unfulfilled and wanting something else. Or, if you just want to be mean, the next time he gives the order to "roll over and spread", when he is done, just whip out a vibe and say, thanks hon, but now I will let something that can actually get me off go to work. Then just lay back and get yourself off and put on a crazy show of moaning, panting and really acting like a porno girl, then when you are done, just say "I sure am glad I have that toy!" Okay, so maybe that isn't the best way to go about, and I am just being sarcastic(as normal) and slightly bitter, but I am sure most of the men here agree, this soldier is not living up to his duty.

Sounds to me as though you are looking for justification for going to a strip club. I think it's fair to say that what every single person on here says is irrelevant. What matters is do YOU think it's cheating. It sounds as though you did and wanted someone to say "hey, it's no big deal". Fine, but now the question becomes, what does your SO think?

Fav toy to watch her use, a dual action, any dual action. I have never seen such intense pleasure on her face with any other type of toy. Yes, We have done it with reletives, friends, all kinds of ppl. In fact one of the first times I ever met my brothers wife(girlfriend at the time), my wife and I snuck into our room and went at it. It was very hot and dirty, but we managed to keep it down. No one was any the wiser until we confessed to it the other day! If you were to compare your lovemaking style to an animal, what would it be? What about your lovers?

Just this weekend, my sister in law confessed to experienceing something similar. She was 15 and horseback riding, the longer and harder she ran the horse, the more intense the sensations, til she just came.

Yeah, I stole the topic description from the actual item page, but other than that, here are my thoughts on the Lovers Candles offered at tootimid. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4416 After a rough and stressful day, what sounds better than a nice relaxing massage? How about a massage with a bit of kink? That’s right, a massage with kink. For your enjoyment and relaxation, Tootimid has brought Lovers Candles, made of sensual and smooth soy oil. These candles are really fantastic. I love giving my wife massages. It is one of the sexiest and most intimate things we can do for one another. Now think about this for a second. When giving a massage, what are some essential items to have on hand? Lighting? Perfect, this is a candle. Pleasing scents? Well the one I have is Dreamsicle, an amazing scent that is orange and vanilla. It smells good enough to eat! Of course you need oil for your massage, right? Again, this little delight has it all. As the soy wax melts, it pools and becomes a silky, warm massage oil that can be poured anywhere you or your lover can imagine. Now, I have played with candles for years, just regular household candles. I have poured the wax on my hands and feet, peeled it off and been fine, but I cannot imagine the pain of pouring that kind of wax on more ‘sensitive’ areas. When my wife poured this on my stiff shoulder blades, I was very pleased at the warmth it provides, not stinging, burning, pain, but a warm/hot tingling and soothing sensation. These candles are significant in that, they don’t return to wax while on your skin. It remains in a liquid state waiting to be massaged in. I cannot tell you how good it feels on tired, stiff, or sore muscles. We have poured this wax almost everywhere imaginable. We tried, necks, arms, legs, back, buttocks, thighs, calves, hands, tummy, and breasts. We avoided some areas due to the fact that it remains a liquid. I would caution that this product MIGHT, but not definitely, be too hot to pour on nipples or other genital areas. If you want, you can even just peel some semi-stiff wax, and begin to massage it in and it will warm up to yours or your lovers body heat, and melt right in. Now, I can say that these candles are bigger than ones I have gotten at my local store or other places I ordered on line, and the scent lasts longer too. So if you have ever considered being like Madonna from Body of Evidence or Tanya Roberts in Night Eyes, now is your chance! Get one of these candles and let a night of sensual and erotic massage begin! CAUTION!!!! While I was playing with my candle, I got the bright idea to put it on a candle warmer. Now, this did warm the entire candle up, made my living room smell nice, and was fine for me to dip fingers in and so on. However, when I poured some on my hand, it was HOT! The case for the candle is metal and will burn you. Again, be careful!

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4951 Ok, really, I didn’t do that wrong; I mean one, two, three batteries in the Doc Johnson Mega Blaster. Oh yes, that third battery really does make a difference. Speaking of differences, the shape and size of this silver vibe are unlike any other “bullet” style vibe I have seen around. The vibe it’s self is 5” by ½ an inch wide. “What is so special about that?” you ask, control. One of the most important features in a clitoral stimulator is how easy is it to hold and hit the right spots? The added length to this vibe makes it easy to hold, change hand position and angle until you hit “the spot”. Now with the added length, does that take away from the vibrations? No, not at all, the head the Mega Blaster holds the weight and motor so the sensations are focused and set right where they are needed most. Now this vibe is slightly different than some others you might have in your toy box, it uses a third battery to provide a little extra power for those nights you want to crank it up and get a REALLY INTENSE AND CLIMB THE WALLS kind of orgasm. As I mentioned earlier, the shape and size are different as well. Not only does the longer vibe make it easier to hold, the narrow shape allows for amazing precision on the clit. Unlike our Silver Bullet that vibrates the clit and the area around it, the Mega Blaster gets right where you want it to be. Doc Johnson also changed one other thing; the wheel power control is gone, in favor of a simpler, easier sliding control. You don’t have to spin and spin to get to full power; you can simply slide the control knob a short distance and go from mild to wild in no time flat. My one caution to this item is that the control pack and the vibe are separate. You plug the vibe in to the control pack via a standard ¼ inch plug located on the cord. Just like a pair of headphones or similar item. Now, I can say this, I was testing this out, and I pulled pretty hard, harder than I would think to normally pull it during sex, and it stayed put perfectly. Now, I make no promises about holding the controller and swinging the vibe over your head, but if you are doing that, I cannot assume to know what your motivations are and I imagine the vibe will come off the hand pack and result in damage or injury. All humor aside, my wife and I love this vibe, it has taken up residency on our list of top toys, and with all the power, control and precision it brings, I don’t foresee it coming down soon.

alrighty, here we go again! I want to try a rollercoaster, but have yet to do so. I love waking up in the beginnings of a blowjob or waking her up with some oral, so that is a yes. Ulitimate position, I don't know if I can nail that one down, there are SO many that are just so much fun! Doggy, cowgirl, standing, ect.... Craziest place ever, A movie theatre, during a movie with an old lady one row in front of us, and no we didn't get caught. I would do a web cam if my partner were on the other end, but not for a stranger or group of strangers. The Ulitmate sexual fantasy is quite an open ended question, but I will say it involves a sex room, swings, paddles, Double penetration, blowjobs, video cameras and a fantastic sound system. You can fill in the blanks yourself. Would you ever post pictures/video of a former lover on-line for revenge?

I have not personally, but I know someone who has. her story is just that she was in love with a man, he told her that he had an STD that was permenant, but treatable, and she went through with it. She now has the disease, and they will have to hold off of intercourse for a while when one or the other is experiencing complications related to the STD. I hope it lasts for them, afterall, that is the last thing you ever want to be stuck with, or have to tell a partner(IMO).

no, no and no. I don't watch porn, never jerked off infront of my friends and never given a blow to another guy.

Sorry Sugar, but no. I have not been on a solo mission in quite a few years. That is the God's honest truth. I will stroke myself infront of my wife, it gets her very hot, but we always, ALWAYS, switch over to something else, oral, or anal play, but I have not jerked off to "completion" in so long, I can't remember when the last time was.

I am thinking more of younger women now, being on a college campus, i see TONS of 18-22 y/o women who dress like they are at home waiting to show off their new lingerie to their man. Some of these girls dress like complete sluts and I love every second. Who is THE celeb you would like to bed and get away with it? Would you let your partner bed one celeb and take him/her back?

Ok, to catch up! I would love to shave my lover, I like to not wear panties on my dates(or ever for that matter, thank you very much), blindfolds are an of course!, and tat's are not my bag really, and a tie with mens shirts/ corsets! Cannot get enough of either. My wife would have answered peignoirs, but I cannot find her one that is what we both really like. when i do however, it might be a different story! Public place you would be most willing to have sex? Rollercoaster, Library, Water Park, Side of the Road, Public Sex Dungeon/Swingers club?

OK lemme catch up too! I go for the mid-line on outdoor sex, the backyard is a must, and state parks and such are great too, I just don't know about like in the middle of a park with ppl picnicing all around. I wouldn't want my kids to see it, so I wouldn't expect that from anyone else. Ice, yes! I like it all over me, nipples, genitals and so on. I recently read about cock-ring ice molds! That sounds a bit extreme, but I will try almost anything twice. Silk or cotton, I like both, and satin too! I am an inside and outside person, I can take my toy chest anywhere! Clit peircings, I have never seen one in person so I don't think I am gonna offer an opinion on this one. Next, what ethnicity is sexiest? Caucasion, African-American, Native American, Italian, Hispanic, Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, or your personal pref?

I am a BIG breast man. I don't typically find women under a C cup to have the size I prefer. That is just me being honest. I won't speak for anyone else, but I like DD or DDD's as my personal pref. If you like spakings, how do you like them? Hand, Paddle, Riding Crop, Flogger, or Other(plz specify!!)?

yes.

I go for getting oral more, I know how much it turns her on. I love roleplay, boyshorts, watching her masturbate. Now a quickie has it's place and I say go for the quickie. A dab of lube and get right to it. She always cums, because even with a quickie, she is really hot and bothered, she is so turned on it's a "right here, right now" kinda situation. She is usually so turned on by the time we can get to it, it doesn't take more than a couple of thursts and she is over the edge. How do you like your DP? two cocks, one cock anal one toy vaginal, or one cock vaginal and one toy anal or two toys? men? ever let your lady penetrate you at all? what with? toy, tounge, finger or other object?

which is sexier? Thongs, boy panties, or none?

I have gotten several blowjobs from my wife in public and on occasion we have left the curtains open that face the street when she blows me or we do and so on. I have often looked out the window at the people driving by an dsome look over, some don't. I like the rush, and what can ppl say, most I don't think register what we are up to. It's mostly during the day, and we keep the lights off. At night, I am not so sure that I would be okay with turning the lights on and letting the neighborhood come by for the show as it were, but different strokes for different folks.

I agree that younger and younger kids are being exposed to sex and sexuality. I am the youngest of six kids, 5 boys 1 girl and by the age of 6(My sister is 6 years older than me) I knew it was inappropriate for me to share a bed with her. When I was younger it was okay, but by that age, she had begun puberty and things had to change. Our world is one of open sexuality in media and poor parenting. Parents want to be free and live in a place where they can be selfish and just have fun rather than discipline or control their kids, let alone pay attention to them. Case in point, I was in a video game store the other day. A boy of no more than 12 years was asking to buy a game that was Adult rated. I don't know if many of you know what the ESRB is or what it does, but this game was rated only for persons 17 and up. His dad and mom walk in, the boy asks for the game, the GM explains the rating and WHY it is rated that way(for language, graphic violence and graphic sexuality and nudity), and the dad just says, "hey, we know about all that, we just turn down the sound to get rid of the cussing". Never mind that your son will be raping and killing whores, or visiting local sluts on the game where you can interact in a completely virtual sexual encounter. At age 12. As a child I was shown pornography at age 6 or 7, I am not too clear on which. I knew how to masturbate before I was even remotely capable. I knew all about girl on girl action, vaginas, clits, breasts, anal, I saw domination, submission, water sports and more before I could enter the 3rd grade. WW, be careful. I was the kid at school who told the others that that crap should be fun and feel good. I know they are there. Some of my friends back then(after my influence) would sneak out their dads pornos and we would watch them. Or tapes from XXX-rated sattelite programs. With the world view on female bi-sexuality, be careful, decide what you want to teach your kids is normal and what is abberant, or devient. Take it slow, be calm, address it on a one-to-one level and find out just what each one knows. Older siblings always like to give the impression that they know more than the younger ones.....if the oldest is getting this info somewhere, you can bet it's gonna be passed down.

frusterated- I have not quite been in this situation, but I do know young women that have/are. My best advice, be open and honest with your daughter. If you have advised her that she is too young for sex, all you can do now is be open and ask her if she is having sex, or is thinking of having sex with her bf. Do not make him a taboo or forbidden person, most times, that will only draw her to him more. The 18-15 gap is large, those ages are huge in the emotional and mental development of children and I see your point about being cautious, and I feel you should be. Just be informed, but don't become the Gestapo. Respect her privacy, space and judgement(to a certain degree) and she will do the same for you. Be sure to talk with her about the dangers of sex. STD's and pregnancy are rampant today. I recently attended a HS Prom where almost 1 in 8 girls was pregnant. And those were the ones that were showing!!! There were possibly more that had not yet begun to show or even know about it. If you are really worried about this young mans influence on your daughter, you can always abide the old addage "keep your friends close, and your enemys closer".

Sounds great! Congrats trooper on her making a decision to let loose for a night. I hope it continues for you and her! I have been in a similar situation for the past few years. I place a much higher priority on sex than my wife, not that it's a bad thing mind you. We just view the importance and and value of sex a bit different. Over the past few years, she has opened up alot and she continues to surprise me every day with the things she is becoming more accepting of. I love games like this one, I think they can be an excellent sex-aid and most ppl I know that try them, like them. They provide a "safe and normal" way to explore your sexuality and give a simple option of "I don't want to play that anymore" if they become uncomfortable. Again Congrats and I hope it only gets better from her on out!

yes, hair can be a Major comfort issue if you are not careful. If he shaves down south, no biggie. I also think there should not be a man in America with a hairy back. Sorry if that offends anyone, but they just look nasty. Hairy chest, ok, I don't dig them, but some women do. I don't have much in the way of body hair, so no probs here, just get him to shave his nether regions and focus the wax there.