Members airforce_girl Posted June 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 I am in a serious relationship and i am a virgin my boyfriend and I are going to the beach for a vacation and I know we will have sex and I want to, but i wanted to know if using a vibrator or toys will make it less painful the first time I have sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted June 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 Just go really slow and easy...there is plenty of time for the actual penetration part. Have you had oral sex yet? Having an orgasm before penetration will make you more lubricated. Also, if you use tampons, it will probably not be that difficult...relaxation is the KEY!!! And everything iha says is on the mark! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members airforce_girl Posted June 10, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 no I have not had oral sex yet either... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted June 11, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 no I have not had oral sex yet either...I would start with asking him to give you oral, to get you started and possibly an orgasm under your belt, and then move to intercourse when you're ready. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members its1013 Posted June 11, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 11, 2008 I am in a serious relationship and i am a virgin my boyfriend and I are going to the beach for a vacation and I know we will have sex and I want to, but i wanted to know if using a vibrator or toys will make it less painful the first time I have sex.and if you don't want to use lube, just place a little bit of your saliva or his saliva on your vaginal opening. this makes penetration easier, too. no spitting. i hate that. you can do it classy.the most important thing for women is to relax their hips down. don't clinch up or raise your hips up. let him do the work.yeah, take your time and enjoy it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members airforce_girl Posted June 12, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 thank you guys for you help I am feeling better about this. Is it more a myth when people tell you it hurts the first time or do you think its because they are over thinking it and not relaxed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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