Want To Try A Threesome

[guyneedshelp]

My wife has a huge fantasy about a MMF. I am fine with it, I did it once a long time ago with 2 real good friends (no DP).

The thing is I am married now and I don't know if it will affect anything. My wife and I are very open with each other. The thing is how to pick someone? I am happy with what a pack 8" but I don't want the other person to be bigger. It may sound odd but thats just me. I don't want it to be anyone we know. This is more for her but in a way after watching a lot of porn in my life I would like to try DP with her. She really wants to try that. I just don't know how to say yeah lets do it and then find a willing third wheel.

Also I haven't really expressed to her as much but if we try the MMF I would like to do the whole MFF thing. Not so much to have sex with the other girl (would be a +) but to see what it's like. My wife told me a fantasy once that she wants a girl to ride me then she does the girl analy with a strap on. I am all for that but I just want to do it the right way and not seem pushy about the whole thing.

So if anyone can help me maybe share some input, past stories or advise that would be great. Thanks

[Tyger]

The article is a great suggestion.

There are a few questions that I want to address right now though.

First, your "I don't want him to be bigger than me" fear is normal, so don't feel bad about that.

Second, is this something you REALLY want to bring a stranger into, or rather someone you know, and trust?

Either fantasy is normal, however, please read this entire forum, and see if the questions and pointers that are brought up make sense, and are your concerns as well. There are many repeat concerns, which Mikayla does address in her article.

Just remember, what you see in porn is fantasy, and can help give you ideas, but it's not made to be taken to heart, or teach you how to be a great lover.

Happy reading.