Guest pmmm Posted March 3, 2009 Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 Hi,I am in love with my EX and have been for the last 30 years. We've lived together off and on about 15 years marred for 5.We have all ways had good sex, BUT then he got cancer and the medication made him important Anyway we are chatting almost every day and he said he wii come to see me in the summer. I said and then we will make love every day. But he told me he is taking calls and chines herbs. And now he is 10 inches sometimes 12. He did send pic. of it. He said he has lost girlfriends over it. And can I do it with him?. I said i don't know but I love him so i will have to try. I am worried that I won't be able to make love with him. I was all ways small even thought I have a daughter 41 years old. Infact some times he would tell me "you are like a virgin you are so small".We have had computer sex and he would stop and say your not ready now about 6 times. So maybe that how he needs to do it to make it work now.This is not what I want but I would like to make it work any how.Can anyone help me with this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted March 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 Well hun i'm not sure about the medical end of it but the sex, I know. LOL LOTS OF FOREPLAY!! See think of teh vagina as a rubber band, brand new never been touched, it doesn't stretch well, but if you work at it and play with it you can stretch it pretty far. The same with a vagina the more relaxed and the more your enjoying yourself the more you will stretch to accomadate him. I'm assuming in addition to length her had some girth? You may not be able to take all of his length in, and that's fine, I don't think many women have a 10" vagina. The other thing you need? Lube like whoa. If you haven't had enough fore play it might hurt a bit when he first enters you, it could even cause some minor ripping, this is not okay. Normally you'll heal up fine but you run a risk of infection and that's never good. So lots of lube and foreplay, you'll know when your ready And just relax, it's still the same guy you always loved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted March 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 I don't believe I'm understanding this correctly....sounds like you are saying he is taking Cialis plus chinese herbs and this has supposedy make his cock grow immensely? I know these things can help the guy stand up a little taller, thicker and harder but I don't think there is anything out there that can cause that substantial of a growth that you won't be able to recognize or handle it....if I'm wrong please let me know exactly what his regimen is..Seriously! I'll place an order today! But if you guys were together before and "fit" there shouldn't be any problems now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted March 3, 2009 Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 .......hard to distinguish... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pmmm Posted March 3, 2009 Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 Thank you suzyp,You reply has made me less worried..And you reply is very helpful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted March 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 I'm confused by your post also, but I know of no "herb" that will increase penis size, if there was a lot of men would be using it. I think he's pulling your leg The vagina will stretch just take your time and use a lube if necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pmmm Posted March 3, 2009 Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 Hi,All I know is the person I love is Not a liar never was.I know him very well we lived together for 15 years.And he is not happy about this.They use to say there was no cure for cancer everyone always died.But he is hear and healthy after 6 years cured.It hurts my feelings not to be believed.Thank you susyp for taking me seriously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dscn Posted March 3, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 3, 2009 no one is calling you a liar or do not believe you what they are trying to say is that what ever he is taking that made him bigger. Also they are saying that if he could have fitted before he should be able to fit now with some extra forplay and lots and lots of lube. I don't think the answers you got was to make you or your So a liar it was just from what you have written and from past experience. Maybe alittle more clarity would would clear everything up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted March 4, 2009 Report Share Posted March 4, 2009 Hi there.I don't think that the people here are calling anyone, directly, a liar. However, we have many years of experiences combined, with different medications AND other remedies, and have YET to see proof of anything in pill/herb form to work, actually improving physical penis size. There are temporary ways of doing so, like with the use of penis pumps, but the size increase isn't substantial, or overly obvious. I'm guessing that he was rather gifted in the size department while you were with him before?Plus, most of us has also experienced men and/or exes bragging about how much better they are NOW, than they were in the past, and how much sexually they've grown. So, I think what it boils down to, is that we're saying just keep an open mind.Cialis is used for erectile dysfunction, and maybe he meant that he FELT like his cock was a foot long when he used it? All Cialis does is increase blood flow to the penis (like Viagra). It can't make skin grow, or muscles grow larger down there.I guess for you, seeing should be believing.If, for some reason, he seems larger, the afore mentioned advice is correct. There is NO vagina that is 10" long. However, it's extremely elastic, and very stretchy. After all, it's designed to give birth to a child, right? Anyway, make sure that, when you're with him, that you're well stimulated/excited. And have LUBE handy! There is nothing wrong with having to use lubes to make sex much more comfortable and pleasurable for everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lil_librarian Posted March 4, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 4, 2009 something is wrong with this thread...something does not feel....real?I concur. When I initially read this post, I honestly thought someone was posting it as a prank. If that is not the case, my apologies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted March 4, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 4, 2009 I concur. When I initially read this post, I honestly thought someone was posting it as a prank. If that is not the case, my apologies.I got that feeling but it is a common issue (size) I thought it would be worth comment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pmmm Posted March 4, 2009 Report Share Posted March 4, 2009 Hi,Well I Guess After being very sick with lung cancer and 2 or 3 years and on heavy duty cancer medication. He was in an drug test program. And not being to have sex at all. And with him being sort of big to begin with .Then when he got his sex drive back. It might have seemed much bigger to him. That is possible. maybe.I guess I have to wate and see what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted March 4, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 4, 2009 No one is calling you a liar. I stated that there is to my knowledge no herb that will increase penile size. Some herbs and medicines may help with erection, but none will add inches to a penis. If he is claiming that, I'd love to read the abstract on it. I am glad his cancer is in remission. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted March 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 5, 2009 I am glad his cancer is in remission.Ditto! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dscn Posted March 5, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 5, 2009 ditto hope you guys have fun when you guys see each other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted March 6, 2009 Report Share Posted March 6, 2009 something is wrong with this thread...something does not feel....real?see i was going to say Troll earlier but i withdrew my comment because i couldnt really tell... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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