Hi, I use to be Hot, As I got older and in my 30's I feel I have Reached Sexy. It really takes time for girl to become a women to become Sexy. I love turning Men on where ever I go, Just by the way I hold my self, & the Eye contact, & the body langauge is sooooo Important. I feel I have a good body to look at, I run and exercise everyday, However its the way I walk & talk that turns men on. Not to mention the red hair, blue eyes & big boobs A girl that thinks she's hot is great, good for her, However being hot doesn't make you sexy, Sometimes when a girl thinks that she's hot & try's to be sexy, You can cross the line & become Skanky. So be carefull. Short tops, Even shorter skirts are hot, not sexy. To answer your question , I have found that young guys (boys) like to be with girls that are hot, Men like to be with women that are sexy & look at the ones that are hot. Hope this helps