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Thanks so much, all of you. I truly appreciate your advice.

That's the best advice I've heard in a long time.

So, tonight I mentioned to my boyfriend of a couple years that I was thinking about cruising by a sex shop. His response: "Good. You need a blindfold, handcuffs, and ankle restraints." Just to be sure, I asked if he was serious, and he said he was (which I kind of knew already). Now, to be perfectly honest, this has always been a major fantasy of mine--and specifically with him. I really couldn't imagine ever wanting to do this with any other sex partner I've been with, and the fact that he's into it is a little fantasy come true. And we have been messing around with very brief impromptu butt spankings, which I very much enjoy, and I have wanted them to go further. But, this is my first venture into this territory, so.... I guess my first question is, why am I nervous if this is something that I've always wanted to do? My second question is...where do I start with the props? What are wrist and ankle restraints that will make me feel comfortable? Many of them look very pricey, so I'm not sure where to start. Also, one concern that I have is that I'm claustrophobic. If I ever feel that I can't breathe I'll spaz out, and I don't want to ruin a potentially good thing. Any thoughts/comments will be greatly appreciated.