Emideedoo

Oh, and pinning. The buildup before anything actually happens, just the teasing, is what I like best. Watching sex isn't all that interesting to me, so I don't really have it play out in my head so much as what comes before it. Somebody being held down and just rubbed on is one of my favorites.

I wouldn't know anything about the reality of it- I just always enjoyed seeing it. My earliest erotic memories are of witnessing an old Hercules episode where he's being wrapped up by snake ladies, and the Oogie Boogie scene from Nightmare Before Christmas. *facepalm* Kidnappings, chasing, bondage, I always love that stuff.

Yea. It's only the weird little quirky things that can usually give me the push over the edge. Haha, as far as the tentacles go, I'm pretty sure it's just the bondage aspect that amuses me. I like those overpowered or dominated themes.

I'm single and a virgin, so it's all me and whatever my imagination conjures. :} I'm just having fun discovering myself, since I got a new job and have the extra money to spend on the occasional toy now.

True, true... I just get frustrated over it, since there's so much more selection in the slightly larger toys that I can't use. I didn't think size would be an issue until I actually started buying toys recently and found out the hard way what I can and can't do. I'll order that Tantus tonight, and let ya know how it goes. <3

Good idea. I sent him a mail, we'll see what he finds. *** I was too smitten and bought it just now, since I was buying something else already and figured it would save on shipping. Even if it turns out too big, I can still enjoy a toy without actual insertion. :}

Haha, to be honest, no idea what my profile picture is! It was one of the options the forum provides and I love falls colors. *grin* Twigs, perhaps? I thought it over last night, and you're probably right about me sticking to one inch- and since silicone's so clean, and I really want a good cock shaped dildo, I think I'm going to splurge a little bit more than usual and go for the Tantus Eaze toy this time. I already know the small size will work fine, and the hand hold will be useful since I use a lot of lube and things like to slip away from me. I'll look around a bit more before buying, but I'm pretty sure I'll still pick that one. Thanks for the advice, it's very helpful! Do you think, if I bought a tapered toys like a longer anal plug, that it might help me stretch out a bit in there?

The harder toys don't seem to insert very well for me. I'm not sure if it's normal, but the 'roof' of my vagina sort of... curves downward, not giving me much room to work with. When I'm pushing a firm toy in it's just too uncomfortable, and the tip bumps into something just a few inches in that makes me go 'ouch'. I'm hoping a soft toy will be less likely to hurt me while I'm playing, since I enjoy a fast thrust. I don't think I'll mind the rubber smell too much, if it does the job, but I'm a bit of a neat freak. I hope things don't stick to jelly as much as I've heard.

Does ANYONE have this toy? I'm so close to buying it just because it looks so damn CUTE, but it has no measurements in its description. I have it sitting in my wish list for now.

Thank you! A question; between jelly, silicone, and soft rubber... how do they compare in general, as far as softness goes? I like the look of the Tantus and Mini-Super Cock best, but I'm leaning toward the Raging Hard On since it looks squishy and harmless.

Are there any dildos sold here that are slimmer than 1.25 and still realistic looking? I'm still searching, there are a lot of toys to go through, but I just want a regular cock shaped dildo-- not a vibe. If you have any recommendations, I'd appreciate it! One inch is a little TOO narrow, 1.25 is too wide, and I just can't seem to find anything that's in between. Some of the toys only list their lengths and I'm not too good at looking and taking a guess. Also, the only toys iIve tried have been hard plastic and glass... could I maybe need something with a little more give?

I liiiiittle bit, but not as much as I hoped. Since I couldn't feel them very well, I kept forgetting them a lot while I ran around shelving and making coffee. I'm guessing it would've been the opposite if I'd had a pair that vibrate with movement, huh? I still enjoyed my experiment, though, and popping them in and out is kind of fun.

Ok. I wore them to work, they were in for about eight hours, and I can honestly say... they were perfectly unnoticeable, besides the tether wriggling about in my pants. Not that that's really a bad thing, I'm sure they're still plenty good exercise, but just for reference; they're very discreet, like a tampon is.

Nope, no vibration or anything. They're simple little glass balls held in a silicone strap, like big marbles. I think I could leave them in all day, honestly, and not mind them- but I don't know how healthy that would be. I can sort of feel them a little bit when I clench, but I think part of that sensation is the tether that hangs out and the ball closest to the opening. Just a very subtle, nice feeling. I have to work up to bigger sizes, since I don't accommodate anything wider than an inch. I really want to try one of the duotone sets, but they're too big for me just now. I'm going to wear them to work today. I can always sneak away to the bathroom if they decide to be irritating.

Well, they arrived today (I'm surprised, it only just said it was shipped), and I'm happy. I don't really feel them once they're in, but I know they're there and they don't try to escape. Went in nice and smooth once I lubed them a little.I nice starter set, I think. Even tinier than I pictured them, though, haha. I shouldn't have worried.

I try to keep things normal sometimes, but I always wind up with really strange fantasies while I masturbate. Tentacle aliens, Professor/Students, silly temporarily one-sided-love Male/male scenarios... I rarely put myself into the equation and it's almost never realistic, but I have to build up a little plot around the characters I make up or I get bored. Just picturing sex doesn't interest me.

I bought these ones because they were the only small sized balls that still had a tether, but my search didn't find any reviews for these ones specifically on this site. I was wondering if anyone's used this pair and had an opinion? Is there a limit on how long I can keep these in once I'm comfortable with them? I was hoping I might be able to wear them in to work sometimes. ((Sorry, posted in the wrong place. Can it be moved? :C ))

The vibrator I got is a hard plastic, so the silicone should be ok I think. I bought the Too Timid Pleasure Gel with it in the same go, but it just dries up too quick for me and gets sticky. So it's time to give silicone a shot. I don't get much pleasure from inserting things exactly, I just really get a kick from... clenching around things? Ahah, I'm not sure how to explain it, I get turned on by clenching my inner muscles, and if there's something in there to feel, it's really nice. I was eyeballing the smartballs, saw that they were too wide to start with, and decided to start out playing with narrow dildos instead. So far, my best luck's been with a... Sharpie marker! No worries in the clit or orgasm department, I can rub those out as often as I like with a little determination. The vibrator definitely does its job well, even if it does rattle like a monster.

Awrighty. I ordered some Swiss Navy silicon lube to help things inch along. Thanks for all the advice, I appreciate it!

It's my first time with anything wider than, say, two fingers. I haven't had sex or anything, so I'm not sure how much stretching is just normal discomfort that I have to be stubborn through until I'm accustomed to it, or if it's actually something I should worry about and stop when I feel. I guess that's something I'll have to work out on my own through practice, hm. Oof, though, vibrator orgasms make me really tense and move around. My legs and stomach feel like I had a full workout yesterday. *laughing* Jeez.

Haha, there was lots of both! I even had a try AFTER my orgasm to see if maybe I'd be more relaxed or something, but by then I was a little too tender to put anything in there. Thanks for the links- I like the look of the Vibe Me and Slim Stick. Also, I was wondering if there's a limit to how many inches can go in? Does the vagina have a 'no passing point' that will hurt if I bump into it?

I did get the TooTimid Pleasure Gel, thinking a water-based would be the safest bet for someone with sensitive skin- but it really did dry up a bit too fast for me and I had to reapply a LOT during my attempts to insert the vibe. The pain would start out as a kind of vague, stretchy discomfort, then built up into a sharp ouch if I kept trying. I backed off when that happened because I was scared I might tear something. I'm not really sure how to get myself loosened up enough for a 1.25 inch toy. The dildo was only one inch, but with the wave AND nubs it wasn't working out at all, it hurt almost immediately just putting the tip in. I think I'll go through the reviews, see which silicone lubes have good ratings, and get myself one of the toys meant for anal, since they tend to be more on the slim slide. Is silicone lube bad for soft plastic too, or just silicone toys? I'll have to do a little more research, yep.

Well, they arrived. And, while the glass dildo is BEAUTIFUL to look at, it was a lot more wavy than I thought from it's picture and I couldn't insert it past the first nub without pain. The vibe was definitely too wide, but I hadn't intended to insert it anyway-- not that I didn't try. Managed to get a couple inches and then said ouch. Ahhhhh well. BUT! The Ultimate Smooth Vibrator was definitely worth it. Very intense, I spasmed like I'd been electrocuted a few times because I didn't expect it to be such a sharp stimulation on high. I'm thinking it'll stay a favorite, I just need to get a less adventurous dildo to use with next time. *sheepish smile* I guess it's an artist thing, I couldn't resist the pretty shapes and textures.

Ok. Sooo... My first toys are on their way, and I'm a little clueless about how to use them. Not that I can't guess and figure it out on my own, but I have next to no experience in inserting anything beyond a slim tampon and, more rarely, my own extremely awkward finger. I usually go the easy route and just hump my hand, ahah. I'm wondering if there are any secrets to make this easier on myself? A certain way to arrange my legs so my privvies will be more open to the idea? It's funny, I never noticed how LITTLE I know my body until now. I never paid attention. 8( Ah, not sure if it matters, but I have a glass dildo and a plain lil vibrator coming.

Oops- got a response today saying the Orange gem IS all out... but Rob was really good about it and told me to pick one or a couple items that add up to $30, which is a bit more than I originally spent, so I'm still happy. I picked the Morganite Glass Dildo and the Ultra Smooth Vibrator, figuring I'll get to test out two types of toys at once. Hopefully my choice of timing is a little better this time, haha