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About cirrus20

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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter: A great masturbation session
  • Marital status Married
  • # of sex toys you own? 2
  • What is your age & gender? 48 M
  1. How Long Are Your Masturbating Sessions?

    For me it depends on how much alone time I have and how badly I need to cum. If I need a quickie it's usually 2 to 5 minutes. If I have time to myself to put on a DVD and get the sleeve out, it's usually 30 to 45 minutes. My longest session was about an hour and ten minutes before I finally had to cum. I do like to take the time and tease myself by stroking for for a long time while getting close then backing off before hitting that point of no return. The whole point is to take the time to enjoy masturbation and not just go quickly to get it over with.
  2. How To Do It Best

    There are so many things you can do. I suggest reading about techniques on the TooTimid educational page. In particular, read the article by Mikayla and husband about using a good lube. A good water-based or silicone lube (depending on your viscosity preference) makes it so much better! Then there are different positions (standing, sitting, kneeling, on your haunches), but the best thing is to take your time and enjoy. Fast and hard to a quick orgasm has its own special charm sometimes, but taking it slow and enjoying the feeling is terrific. As you masturbate and feel yourself getting close to the point of no return, stop until you get control back then start again. Stopping and starting like that for a while will drive you wild until you get to the point were you just have to cum! It has the added benefit of training yourself to control your orgasms; helpful when you have sex with a partner. I think some others have mentioned masturbation sleeves, pumps, etc. The cyberskin virtual touch sleeve is long enough for most guys to fit in without popping out of the end. Try that. I have to say though that the best sleeve I've every used isn't available on TooTimid. I've always wanted to find out if some toys are exclusive to certain sites? Is it possible to suggest a toy that TooTimid could put on their site?
  3. Once, I was super horney and and did it on a secluded beach, but nobody caught me.
  4. A Little Somethin'-somethin'

    Smokin' hot pictures. Thanks very much for sharing.
  5. Male Give Away Freebie Review

    I tried it too and found it difficult to get into. I'm average size and was really hard because I was excited to try it. It almost seemed like it was going to bend my cock with each stroke. I appreciate the free offer for the guys, but this toy should have a lable saying it is specifically made for smaller guys.
  6. Usually when I masturbate I think about hot scenes from porn flicks or just concentrate on the pleasurable feeling. But what do others fantasize about while masturbating?
  7. What Do You Like During Masturbation?

    I like to be alone with all kinds of time. I'll watch a hot porn flick and have lots of lube available for my masturbation sleeve. The best thing is taking time to enjoy the experience using lots of different positions (standing, kneeling, sitting, on the chair, etc.). I'll stroke for about 30 minutes just trying to enjoy the feeling of being hard without getting close to cumming. Then I'll do the bring it close/back it off for a bit until I just have to shoot my load. Just describing it makes me want to get out my toy and a DVD!
  8. Need Help Finding Sex Therapist

    Some useful things to check out. Thanks.
  9. I've been married for 20 years and over the last 8 years my wife has lost all desire for sex. We previously had a great sex life, but I think medications and hysterectomy surgery have taken their toll. My sole release is masturbation. But I wonder if a qualified sex therapist might help. The question is how to find one? Help?
  10. Vasectomy = Horny

    I had it done many years ago and there was just a little soreness for a couple days (although it was very sore right afterward). Nothing bad, but hey, any surgery will make you sore. The freedom afterward was great with not having to worry about birth control. The only drawback (if you can call it that) is that the volume of semen when you cum decreases. In biology class they said semen is 20% sperm and 80% fluid from the prostate. In my case it seemed to be the other way around. So you don't shoot as far as before, but it still feels the same!