I hate it when My BF comes early... He used to have this problem during the first year or so after we started being intimate. The average guy can have another erection within minutes after cuming, but cannot cum right away because they are not ready. Our Foreplay includes giving him head, I make him suck my clit first and make him work for his. Once I'm wired up, I'll suck on him until he cums, and Just like Janet, I'll swallow it. The Idea is to keep him arroused. I try different things to bring back his errection. I'm a natural hottie so it doesn't take me long. Sometimes I'll tease him, or put a vibe in his ass, anything that keeps him in the mood... He loves my feet so i'll let him suck on my toes. Once he is up, we'll start off slow. if I notice he's getting to a certain point i'll slow down, maybe change positions. What once took 30seconds (Literaly) to cum, now takes about 45 minutes. Some times when were horny as hell we will spend hours trying all kinds of things. Sometimes I'll keep him from laying down, sometimes if he is laying down, he'll get all soft and lazy and fall asleep.