Ok, so obviously I'm going to think it's a real orgasm because, well, it's the only thing I've ever encountered during sex that makes me feel so good. The ONLY reason I am questioning is because I hear stories of women with multiple, long and drawn-out orgasms- women who are ready for round two quickly after. I've been with my hubby for 8 years and have had partners before him: Never has an orgasm lasted more than about 5 seconds. Immediately after it happens, I clam up and lose all sexual arousal, to the point where my vagina actually "forces" my husband out. The orgasm itself feels WONDERFUL...I just wish it would last longer and perhaps one day, get to a point where I can keep going for a 2nd one. I can't even fathom the thought of being sexual after I cum, is this unusual? The orgams do vary in intensity depending on the situation, I've noticed that I get a different overwhelming feeling when having anal intercourse- either way, it's always great. Is this what a "normal" or typical orgams sounds like?
