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The Sex Education of a Young Girl - Me I think back fondly of these things, i thought i would share. Mom bought us a used computer when i was 14, one of her boyfriends taught us how to get to chat rooms. The one we liked best was VP, but it went broke and quit in about a year, Then we went to Excite Chat, it went belly up eventually. I havent found a decent one since, or i would be chatting away. You "stole" an icon, called an Avatar, a "Paint Shop" would put your name on it. It was you, and after a while, i was the Avatar, in my mind. In VP, guys would invite you on a "Tour" , they would put up a car or bus Icon, you hop on, and they drove to any web sight. We would chat about the sight. I got in the habit of sneaking into "Sex Chat" even thou you had to be 18. Chatters (guys mostly) would ask my age, my 14 only got them more interested in meeting me somewhere at night. Then we would go on a "tour"- of their favorite porn sight- mostly paid sights. I watched (both our computers are hooked together over the net) them put in there username, i asked and they would tell me their password, now i could surf there any time. Then we would look at sexy pictures and i would be given my "education." What i missed, some of moms boyfriends gladly volunteered when mom was'nt around. I cant blame them tho, i was eager to hear. The internet is a wonderful teaching tool. And here is one of my Avatars: Love, Kate

Spiffy, how 'bout this? We can share, Kate (just testing this picture thingy. work Sat, off this afternoon, cant stay from all you peops, too much free time lately, lol, Kiss, K.)

Crazy, thanks for your hair trim comment, but now you have me curious about that style clip. Want to e-mail me a picture? kate at mail2lipstick dot com I'll give it a prominate place in my collection (giggle) Love, Kate.

Big Daddy, if you need practice let me know (at most Dance lessons you change partners frequently). I trim the Bikini line, i think girls are much more feminine with fur on that pretty little mound. BUT guys that shave their pubic hair, **** ***** *** *****. And WHY WHY WHY do they do it?

Should we soak the label off the beer bottle first? I wouldnt want it to get lost up there. And don't use Bud Light, the beer will be flat from all that shaking. (he he)

Just wiggle down on your lovers hard erection, him flat on his back, you sitting upright on your pussy. Now rather than doing the up and down, in and out lovin', try the washboard job. Thats what one of my old boyfriends called it. You masterbate going forward and back on that part of his hipbone that loops up over his penis. It's in the perfect spot to excite your clitty. Shortly he'll want to start lifting you up and give you his thrusting routine, but don't let him. He'll be really hot, maybe half insane, when you have contractions as you climax. 'Trained my guy to do what i wanted as i washboard masturbated, ohh how he loved it. Anybody here use this technique? Or one simular? Love, Kate.

If i'm still hot and want to continue and he is soft after vaginal sex i fondle his balls and penis, while dwelling on the sex subjects i know he likes, for a while. Then i give him a blow job. This is one of guys very favorite things. He'll love it as much as we like mult orgasms, even if he is still soft. 'Hope i dont loose my technique now, in this no boyfriennd period!

Hi Mira, my first dildo (when i was 13) was a little linen table napkin rolled up tight with about ten dozen rubber bands around it. Worked really great, masterbated with it so much i wanted to marry it(joke). But seriously, it did work great, needed hand washed frequently, and it is really easy to get rid of the evidence. PS: Tell him you want a nice vibrator for your aching back.

Hi Bama Grrl, i've never been proud of this but i went an a weekend affair three times with one of my HS teachers who had a real problem with erections. He could get hard, but it wouldn't last a whole minute. His wife criticised him about it, which made it worse. He bribed me to give him pleasure and his manly feelings back, i had no real love for him. What we did was just oral sex. He loved to suck me off, and when it was his time, he would ooze a little cum during his climax, always completely soft and shrunk, but he did have orgasms. This was what he needed and his wife refused him. He was very very grateful. His wife found out somehow and confronted me, and i admitted everything, but told her i thought she was the real culprit and why. She just walked out of the store dumbfound and silent, no more ever said or done. What have i learned from this? 1. Don't make a big (or little) deal about a guys performance. 2. If it gets soft, he needs extra help, sometimes a less stressful or strenous activity, like oral or even talking dirty(guys get sexed if their girl uses the words fuck, screw, bang, poke, my cunt, pussy, hot ass, etc). 3. You feel awful after sex with a person you dont really love, even if you feel very sorry for him.

Thank you cuddles for such a reaffirming post for what i knew deep down was right, but was in denial from the spell of his charms. I read your note with a heavy heart. Right now i'm suffering withdrawal twinges, but i know they will subside. Others have commented on how to be more appealing to a decent man by being more modest. They are right i know, and i am thankful for their careing concern. I have always tried to lure men by being sexy, i want to refrain from much of that too. Love, Kate.

Hi Applecheekz. Four soft porn dvd's you might start with are: "Playboy - College Girls" "Playboy - Sorority Girls" "Playboy - Casualsex.com, Personals 2" "Forbidden Games" all very highly rated, four stars or four and a half. Good choices for me, who is going to keep her legs crossed if that is possible. Love, Kate

At one time i thought guy talk about having cock over about 8 inches long was just some big BS bragging, UNTIL i dated a 19 year old black man from three towns up the gulf. I could hardy believe what i found in his pants, thought it would never stop growing. I did'nt measure it, but it must of been half again as long and half again as thick as i'de ever seen. Went well over an inch past his belly button when he stood up. It bottomed out in me with still plenty to go. He would lay on his side facing me, me on my back next to him with my legs slightly pulled up over his crotch and his love tool mostly (maybe two thirds) in me. He kept my clitty happy with wet fingers. i kept him happy with creative kisses and ball fondling. The ending called for several curtain calls. Never say "i'm busy" to a young black man.

I think any girl can learn to squirt -love juice, not pee. After doing it accidently a few times years ago when i was REALLY sexed, i expermented when i was having intercourse. Now sometimes, just to show a guy, i have him lay his erection between my legs, the tip on my tail hole, hump my pussy fordward and up, and squeeze my buddocks really hard together- Bingo, i wet his cock. But my nipples have to be hard enough to hang my panty and his jacket on.

Thanks Big Tit Lover (I'm only a 34 C, and my nipples are average ), how nice of you to to be so supportive of me. I do enjoy my life, i have a very plesant job, many good friends, and i enjoy most of my sex life too. Lately i have been thinking i really want to have childern in the very near future, but that seems so hard to reach. I would want to be married to a good man first. Marring a girlfriend (in some states i think like San Francisco) and adopting (could they fertilize one of my eggs with an egg from her?) goes thru my mind too, but that is an uncertain path for a girl. Further away now that i am unattached. Kisses, Kate.

Hi Timid, i can tell you that women make far better lovers than men, i had a girlfriend for almost 2 years in high school, we kept it in the closet. i dated guys also then. She went back to the Ukrane at the end of our senior year. we keep in touch, she is married now. ocasionly i find woman that i am attacted to, but it seems hard to start a loving relationship with women. Men will start (sometimes fake) a relationship in a split second. i dont think this is unusual. it seems like my hormones run the show.

Thanks Tim for your concern. I think Married Guy and i are fully split up, at least i want it that way. "Go celebate for 6 months ", WOW. My hormones would explode. One day is stretching it, my vibrator has lots of miles on it. I did promise myself i'de keep my legs crossed on a first date thou. Kate.

Hi Spiffy, i have a vibrator with straps to keep in in place, you can fall asleep with it on. It excites your clitoral area, does not penetrate ( i have used it with intercourse). Works great!!! If you find a large vibrator you can hold it tight between your legs, I masterbate some nights this way for a change. Sure keeps a single girl sane.

Hi Rose, i did'nt see any guys answering you, and i'm not sure, but it must be that spot in in the ridge of his cock head where it starts and ends, the front when he has an erection. AND, Hi my new too-timid family. I took one of my postings here, in Too Timid, and made a short story of it, I like to write, i'm way far from the class of Emily Dickinson (i just LOVE her work) but think i'm slowly getting better. Now that i have no boyfriend (i think/hope) i'll have time for more of such. Read it at http://www.geocities.com/pippi4you2darling/thankU.html if you want. Love. Kate.

PS This web sight feels like my missing family at times. Love, Kate

My married boyfriend and i had an amiable parting last night (al least i think we did, if he lets me be). I simply told him i want a single boyfriend and don't want to cheat on him. He seemed to understand that, which seems strange. I want to thank all who answered my original post., i kept thinking of your comments all the while i was with him. The topic of the IUD never came up, so i didn't have to fib. He wanted to take me to a fancy restaurant fot a "Wish me the best dinner" but i said no, lets have a clean and complete break now. And i promised myself i would 1-not go out with a married man ever ever again and 2-be more reserved on a first date. I did meet a guy yesterday who excitd me, now if it is a two way thing?????????????????????? And i hope he can/likes to dance. Kate

Chris 4 you, you impress me. You seem right on in your Anal Sex post. My first experience with Anal was very very painful, he was in no hurry to stop and i beared with it for quite a while. His rod was very thick at the base, maybe thats a factor. But he never got all the way in. I still dont enjoy it, and if my guy must have it i tell him to keep my clitty really busy. And the posts about sticking your tongue up there...YUCK!!!!!!!!

Hey Roper Gal, if i stop using tampons do i get my virginity back?

Do you have a good vibrator and enjoy masterbating? I'm no expert, but i think pleasing yourself alot makes you want the real thing more yet. And i should hope that your hubby would assist when he heard that sweet humming, i know my guys would.

Postscript! When i was writing my post on The Perfect Blow Job, i recalled something that i never quite understood and question now. Maybe you guys (gal's comments welcome too) will enlightem me. Dating in high school, there were boys (seems like mostly skinny ones) who would get an erection for any little thing, almost saying hello to a girl. Almost every guy i dated wore "jockey" underpants, not loose fitting boxer types. If i undressed them they most frequently had a boner up thru the fly. And then we struggled to get the panty off him. It hurt him if i bent it down, and that made the job almost impossible. Seems they said it hurt to bend it much in any direction. And i vividly recall how rock hard their cocks felt. Where are these guys now? I would like to revisit this! Where they virgins, or almost (just a few sexual encounters, reguardless of what they claimed) virgins? I havent met a guy in 3 or 4 years with this wonderful affliction. Someone explain please!

Get her an Anal Vibrator and help her put it in with jelly when you two have conventional sex. She will love the extra pleasure from it . And they are thinner than your rod, go in quite easily (but take time here, wait till the anal muscle relaxes and then go a little bit further, it can be painless if it goes real slow). Thin peops (like me) are quite sensitive to having something, even a finger, fast jammed there. Maybe not so thin peops too, i don't know. After a few times she will probably be ready for your cock in her tail hole. Maybe warm it up with the vibrator first. Keep her clitty very very happy during the anal sex so she wants a repeat. Good luck on this venture, Kate