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Update: so I used my plug and while it was surprisingly comfortable it did not do much for stimulation. Maybe a different shape? Any suggestions for me?

So, as I explore the sensational area of anal stimulation for men the thought occurred to me that I might want to try having something "in there" while I work out. I exercise at home and primarily jump rope for cardio. Any thoughts on this? I know there are kegel exercises for men and I am thinking this would be a good way to hit this bird. I was thinking of a small butt plug I have or a smaller curved toy that could be held well at the perenium. Do any ladies do this vaginally or anally?

I totally get that. I too still hold the door and car door etc. In the experience I have with my wife of 10 years is that she just wants me to be a bit more forceful, rough, dominating. The things we do for our wives... I would suggest starting softly. I en as a pat casually, not in bed, to get yourself used to it but also let her know you are being sensitive to her desires. Work your way toward what you both feel is comfortable. My wife loves my big hands and it's a turn on for her to use them. Just keep open communication about it.

Greetings to all. I found this site as an alternative to the "grungy" porn stores that give me the creeps. It was also nice to see a pleasant community to pose questions to and get respectable feedback! I'm one of those non-stereotypical guys who worships sports and into enhancing my macho persona. I'm a scientist and love to explore the body. I recently made a purchase from TT and hope to revitalize my wife's desire for some passionate love-making. One item is a strap-on. Totally not for her. She expressed interest in this once a long while ago but my suggestions to explore me with a toy seems to be a reluctant one. Am I reading her wrong? I was amazed at the power of an orgasm when I used a toy on myself while she was out one evening. The thought of her one the giving end makes me bulge every time. She is the microwave and I am the crock pot so it's hard to get her to slow down. Well, I love to give oral so it may be my fault that I turn her on too quickly. I'm like jack Daniels.. A hard licker!! Any tips would be great from the friendly folks here.