Hi Harpy, every relationship has its ups and downs. mine is not the best by no means. i have been with my girl for 24 years and i am not turned on one bit by her anymore.As a matter of fact , i have told her to leave me but she wont. She know she has it made living with me. I am a good provider and she knows it.I cant even fuck her anymore. My cock wont fit, lol !! but thats not everything in a relationship, by no means. She does keep my house clean , takes care of the animals , cooks and helps my mom out a lot , shes 80 so i really respect that. I have fun on timid talking and reading also. One day your hubby might wake up and see what hes missing, hopefully.