Tyger I'm sorry to hear that all this is falling on you , its never easy loosing anyone that you are really close to and I hope your daughter is feeling better, It sounds to me like you have been treated poorly and its not right, If you ever need to vent you can vent to either Wen or I we always listen. its a shame that some people want you to listen to there issues but wont give you the time of day when you need to vent. its just not right.
Wen and I are finally getting to the time of year that our jobs are slowing down and we can be on the forums more often.
Doctor L8 & Nurse Wen Prescribe just for you , get some fragrant bath salt, a nice bottle of wine, A soft sensual bubble bath soap, Light some candles , turn down the lights, put on some soft jazz and immerse yourself in a deep water hot luxurious bath and let your troubles melt away, Pamper yourself with a night of you time