PlayfulKitty

Personally I feel like men who can't last longer then 10min are bad in bed..it always annoys me a little when I'm having sex with a man who can't get me off with his dick. I mean yea there's fingers and toys and oral but I really like when a man can just use his member to give me that big O! So I base it on how long they last, how good they are at foreplay, and how adventurous they are. Just me though ?

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On the eve of my birthday I can sit here and reflect all the sexual encounters Iv had on my birthday and whole heartedly say I am satisfied ? Although the years go by quickly it seems the older I get the faster they go.. I am kinda sad I haven't gotten my new review toys yet I always feel like It's Christmas when then happens!! How about everyone else is there a specific birthday you can remember that ended, began or evolved around the best sex ever!?? I feel like it's the only day I can 100% guilt free be a selfish lover. So if you don't mind why yes I will have my cake and eat it too! ??

On the eve of my birthday I can sit here and reflect all the sexual encounters Iv had on my birthday and whole heartedly say I am satisfied ? Although the years go by quickly it seems the older I get the faster they go.. I am kinda sad I haven't gotten my new review toys yet I always feel like It's Christmas when then happens!! How about everyone else is there a specific birthday you can remember that ended, began or evolved around the best sex ever!?? I feel like it's the only day I can 100% guilt free be a selfish lover. So if you don't mind why yes I will have my cake and eat it too! ??

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Hmm.. This one is close to home for me.. I'm not going to say it's as much cheating that bothers me it's what porn can do to a person that's what bothers me. I mean I have watched porn and yea it totally gets me hot, however I feel like there are men and probably women who lose control. When my SO begins to prefer porn over reality it becomes cheating in my eyes. I mean everyone on here no doubt in my mind has heard of porn addiction, and I personally believe this is a real thing. Sure every once in a while watch it together get things spicy cool, but yea when it begins to interfere with real intimacy and real physical sex in a relationship and even making your SO feel like they don't measure up to the standards of a porn star I think then it's cheating and then your hurting each other. Just my opinion though

Hey that sounds pretty cool! Are you a collector of that kinda stuff?

How was everyone's weekend!!?? Anything exciting or crazy happen to you? We celebrated my mothers 60th birthday with a 70s themed party very fun! Hope everyone got some rest and is ready for Monday.. ?

Thanks for responding so quickly guys! I love both of those types of music very much! Iv always felt like i don't have a favorite music I like it all I listen based off mood and feelings not too much on preference.. Lately iv been listening to a lot of 90s alternative music ? I love pearl jam they're top 5 favorite bands for me for sure

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Whats everyone listening to these days? I always like hearing other peoples music preferences, I feel like you can get to know someone pretty good by what they listen too. Do any of you listen to music during sex? anything in particular or just your typical Barry white on the radio baby makin music haha. My husband and I are definitely not that fancy lol we usually just have something on the tv for background noise or nothing at all.. boring but we dont really need the ambiance if you will

I also have a couple tattoos My very first tattoo i got on my 18th birthday its a pair of lips on my butt cheek essentially I was sticking it to the man! haha I have a very detailed yellow sun on my low right back took 5 hours and was the most painful one i got my largest tattoo is a moon on my lower left side of my back that has clouds and stars that go up my rib cage - Sun and Moon combo basically rule my back My last tattoo is a small lady bug on my right wrist didn't hurt at all and took about a whole 15 min but i get a lot of compliments on it All my tattoos are colored, do you guys prefer colored or not when it comes to getting tattoos? as far as it makin me hot, not particularly gets me feeling like a rebel though! haha

I think its so important to continue to find time to have sex after kids, I have so many mommy friends that say they never want to have sex or that their sex life is seriously lacking. I know for me and my husband the 6 weeks you have to wait after having a baby were torture for us! I was curious if anybody else has had issues getting the spark back or any ideas on how to keep it kinky with a little one in the next room. I would say it definitely takes more of an effort to keep up the spark considering your exhausted, but I feel its the only way to truly stay connected with my husband, and most days its the only time I get him all to myself. I would encourage my fellow mothers to make time to be sexy for your husband and be a freak in the sheets, they'll love it and it will also give you that confidence that can seem non existent when you look in the mirror after having a baby. Also being desired sexually is so good for your soul and your mind, as mothers I think we lose ourselves sometimes, so take a night to be the hot sex goddess you know is still in there! WINE HELPS! lol

Ugh I can relate to this 100% my husband and I are 10 years apart which is why I think we have this issue, my libido is always roaring! He likes sex but definitely not as frequently as I do.. it sucks! On top of that he doesn't last or want to go several times as much as I would like him too.. Im sure the more children we have and the older I get maybe well be on the same sexual wave length, but right now its definitely something I just deal with.. I also think we are both on different sexual maturity levels I know I have had double the amount of sexual partners he has-he was a late bloomer in the dating world- so i know what i like and iv tried a million things, he just likes plain and simple..and oral. like all men. so harpy. Im with ya sister!

My husband knows im a member on here, when i spoke to him about testing out sex toys it made him pretty hot- let just say we have both realllllly enjoyed my becoming a member. As weird as it may sound my mother in law also knows im a member! We are extremely close, and I figured her knowing might spark some conversations I feel she desperately needs to have! lol hopefully her curiosity continues to grow-my in laws have been married 47 years.. they need spark big time!

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Yes yes!! Join I didn't anticipate it being as fun as it is, everyone is so nice and welcoming!

Thanks for the warm welcome guys! Can't wait to get to know you all a bit better ?

Hmm where to start with Mr. Cory, he’s very attractive looking and has several nice qualities, however he just wasn’t my type... I am a lover of vibrators and Cory fell short. The vibrations on this guy were not as strong as I had hoped to really rock my world. Also the twisted ribbed edge around him- I didn’t find pleasant as much as uncomfortable. I will say he is extremely flexible and can definitely move in any direction you want him too. Another, positive side of Cory is that he is water proof so bath time is definitely more enjoyable with his company. I do enjoy toys that that have the multi speed dial at the bottom the way Cory does, it makes for a comfortable adjustments during playtime. I also think that toys with multi speed dials are great for beginner toy users, especially when finding the right speed to make you burst. I used Cory both in the bathtub and with my husband, I would say bathtub was definitely more pleasurable then using it with my husband. Again, the ribbed edges weren’t doing it for me when I used it with my husband, and in the bathtub it felt like the vibrations were lulled even more. It still definitely helped me achieve my awesome orgasm don’t get me wrong, but I would have liked an explosion! Cory uses AA batteries which for an avid toy user like myself, I love that. AAs are easy to come by and are usually handy in a TV remote when you can’t find them anywhere else! Clean up can be a little bit of a hassle because of the ridges, but the rubbery material makes it easy to clean in water. I feel like this toy would be ideal for a first time user of vibrators the speeds and vibrations are not too much for a beginner, but are a great way to find what you like and still get the amazing “O” that your craving! Here's the link to Mr. Cory he could be the man for you! https://www.tootimid.com/corys-twisted-vibe-7829.html

Hmmm I would say its moderately loud it's discreet enough to carry around, but I probably still wouldn't use it in a public place ?

Thanks tyger, that did help made me feel like I know that it's a basic thing and I'm not crazy haha.. I think like you said it's based on insecurities I need to work on myself! Thanks for your help!

Am I the only one who total hates when my husband watches porn or looks at other girls naked? I mean I am a freak in the sack and am usually 100% up for anything. Is it just a man thing to want to jerk off alone sometimes? Just like out of laziness, like it's easier just to get yourself off real quick instead of having to worry about getting your partner off too? I just feel like dude if you have a wife who's down to do it whenever however whatever porn shouldn't even be a thought as well as jerking off. End rant opinions welcome