My husband was the best man for him and we had an affair going for several years and my husband found out about us and wanted to kick his ass after several months apart he wanted me back and we have been together now for 47 years . Can't say that I don't think about cheating again(want a big thick cock) but I think that my husband would just kick me to the curb. He has health issues now and can't penetrate but he has a hollow strap on and he can then take care of business, he takes great care of me in other ways too