MsKarin well my point of view is that youre normal......why is that if a girl thinks of others ora X its wrong???? now the person that started this topis i have to say as well as others have if you dont love your hubby then why are you together??? May i ask is it you do love him but just on that level that you feel for the other man you know your X....There are many diff levels of love and maybe some talking with your man or some counseling will help you realiize you should stay and you may find the answers to the feelings you feel or go and be with the one you say you really love and be happy.......but that is something a counseler will help you with....anyway Mskarin in your way of saying i took it as you love the man youre with but just wish he had something of that of your x in this case you said u wished he was there to instruct your hubby in the bedroom.....now you should talk with your hubby about what you both enjoy and what really pleasures you both and im sure if you have a nice talk and basically tell him where he needs to improve to make the sex even better he will change in no time....CAIUSE WHO DOESNT WANT GREAT SEX.....get to the point of what you need and want but put it to him in a nice way......now as for the part of you thinking of yourX when you pull out your toys.....im sure once you and hubby get on the same page of what pleasure and how to do it,,,,,you will be thinking of him when those toys are in play.....and really if not its still not bad your with your toy so it could be anyone u want doesnt have to be your man......its for your pleasure.......tell me girls and you know its true we have all at some time or another while fucking with our man have maybe thought of a hot movie star or someone seen on tv or whomever.....just a part of life and as long as it doesnt causees problems and is kept to yourself in your own mind for your own pleasure no one gets hurt and you cum fucking damn hard......lol.....WHAT DO YOU THINK GUYS THINK OF......SOME DO THINK OF THE ONE THEY R WITH BUT CMON IM SURE MORE THINK OF PORN STARS OR PAM ANDERSON OR MAYBE A XGF....IF THEY DONT TELL ITS ALL GOOD WE ARE THE ONES THEY ARE FUCKING A HAPPY ENDING FOR BOTH MsKarin well my point of view is that youre normal......why is that if a girl thinks of others ora X its wrong???? now the person that started this topis i have to say as well as others have if you dont love your hubby then why are you together??? May i ask is it you do love him but just on that level that you feel for the other man you know your X....There are many diff levels of love and maybe some talking with your man or some counseling will help you realiize you should stay and you may find the answers to the feelings you feel or go and be with the one you say you really love and be happy.......but that is something a counseler will help you with....anyway Mskarin in your way of saying i took it as you love the man youre with but just wish he had something of that of your x in this case you said u wished he was there to instruct your hubby in the bedroom.....now you should talk with your hubby about what you both enjoy and what really pleasures you both and im sure if you have a nice talk and basically tell him where he needs to improve to make the sex even better he will change in no time....CAIUSE WHO DOESNT WANT GREAT SEX.....get to the point of what you need and want but put it to him in a nice way......now as for the part of you thinking of yourX when you pull out your toys.....im sure once you and hubby get on the same page of what pleasure and how to do it,,,,,you will be thinking of him when those toys are in play.....and really if not its still not bad your with your toy so it could be anyone u want doesnt have to be your man......its for your pleasure.......tell me girls and you know its true we have all at some time or another while fucking with our man have maybe thought of a hot movie star or someone seen on tv or whomever.....just a part of life and as long as it doesnt causees problems and is kept to yourself in your own mind for your own pleasure no one gets hurt and you cum fucking damn hard......lol.....WHAT DO YOU THINK GUYS THINK OF......SOME DO THINK OF THE ONE THEY R WITH BUT CMON IM SURE MORE THINK OF PORN STARS OR PAM ANDERSON OR MAYBE A XGF....IF THEY DONT TELL ITS ALL GOOD WE ARE THE ONES THEY ARE FUCKING A HAPPY ENDING FOR BOTH