Honestly, without knowing your girlโs personality, canโt offer too much advice. But.. maybe slowing it down a bit b4 going in for the climax. Whatโs her favourite dinner? Chick flick? An evening about her and then a little bit of light petting. Concentrating on kissing her neck, then moving down her shoulders. Consistently keeping her curves in play! Moving down and sometimes back up for a sensual kiss from time to time. Then she just may be relaxed enough to let her self go! Then get in there haha ๐คช. Just a thought, it may be the approach??