Country Girl 87

My husband and I tried anal for the first time. We used lube and a condom. In the beginning it was nice then I started feeling a lot of pressure. Is that normal? Also it seemed like after about 10 minutes I was starting to dry out a little. So we stopped. What would you recommend for the best lube to use? Also do you recommend condoms and if so what do you recommend? I have read a lot of other comments and they suggest enema what about a suppository instead to help with the clean out? I have also read recently that stimulation is good we did not do that as I didn't know that at the time. We will try that as well next time. Any information is greatly appreciated.